I'm a FTM and we've had multiple offers to throw us a baby shower. Both our workplaces, family and…

I'm a FTM and we've had multiple offers to throw us a baby shower. Both our workplaces, family and friends. We wanted to do them co ed but combining them has too many people. I feel guilty even creating a registry. Thoughts, opinions?? How many showers did you have as a FTM?