@suzzie. Yup it sucks. People think it's so easy, and believe me if they ever experienced being homeless for over a year they wouldn't be saying that! I still think about it every single day and I still have dreams about it too, IT really fucked with my head, not knowing where you're gonna sleep, where you gonna eat, getting stranded in the dead of winter with nowhere to go. Not a single person I knew was willing to help me, believe me. There is no way I'll let that happen again, especially because I'll have a baby with me, I can't ever do that again. It's horrifying. I would get so desperate I slept at random peoples houses and I got things stolen from me, but i was so cold and desperate, you'll go anywhere just to be warm and to not be walking miles every single day, a lot of people took advantage of me in a lot of ways during that time. Things I don't even want to think or talk about.

@abreton666 Girl, I'm so sorry Your going thro this. I have went thro it before and yes your right its not that easy especially when children are involved. It took me a while to leave so i know the pain and the process. Children are involved you can juat up n leave with no help nothing. My friends rolled me all the time robleave I'm like you gonna watch my kids when I go To work cuz they was not in daycare nothing. They all said yea when he went to jail they didn't wanna help and i was on the list for daycare at the time they were not able to help nothing so I could work but he ended job getting out and was watching our son again but few months prior to me leaving o got them enrolled in daycare all that and said touch me again your gone and it was it and I'm sure he knew he f up cuz he acted differently than usual when I leave him he ends up coming back fee days cuz he knew i had work n needed sitter.

There’s got to be something you can do. And he’s being physically abusing too? You need to take pictures of your injuries and visit legal aid while he’s at work. Things will only escalate, and soon he’ll have the baby as a target too.

What??? Well Damn. I would empty the account and go to family. Please dont let that baby be around him

@beemommyof3 Yeah I looked into that and you need to provide 3 police reports and pictures of wounds and all that. Unfortunately I've never called the cops on him so I have no proof of anything..

I dont feel it was rude at all. They have womens shelters especially for battered women that could possibly help you. Call 211 while he is at work.

@abreton666 oh no I'm so sorry that you have to go through this love. I pray God make things turn around for you. You deserve so much better.

@abreton666. This makes me wanna cry I pray that god gives u a nice car and house and someone buys you a car

And please don't think I was trying to be rude to you guys with that message I really wasn't, I was just trying to make you understand my predicament. And I meant no disrespect at all.

@jennatess @halifax6 @sakyraandmydaughterjamilliya @beemommyof3 @chasha2017 @msjt07 @alysonmahon @sakyraandmydaughterjamilliya @taylorchiveral I have punched him a bunch of times because of the shit he says to me, but its not fun when he hits back. And for this entire pregnancy may be a little longer. I've been putting in applications for low income housing for welfare food stamps. WIC subsidized housing. And I have to do all this behind his back and it's very hard because I have to tell them not to mail me anything. Because if he sees it Im fucked, and I have to tell them not to call me. Brecause if He hears me talking on the phone about that I am also fucked. And believe me, if it was that easy to just pack up and walk out, I would have done it 2 years ago. But when I first left my husband years ago I was homeless in the dead of winter and beyond that for over a year, I only got one check a month I had nowhere to go. No family to help me, no friends. I was sleeping in apartment building hallways. Ive slept in the girls bathroom in stop and shop or walmarts, a lot of horrible things happened to me during that time, and it actually gave me PTSD. It traumatized me. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. And so where would I go? I cant just walk out. For one, I'm going to have a baby so right there there is a problem I don't have a car, but I do have a license. There's no bus stops anywhere near me. There is absolutely not a single person that will help me believe me I tried and tried and begged my family, who has never helped me or supported me in my entire life. I can't be homeless again, especially with a baby. And the shelters here in Springfield, every bed is taken and they throw you out in the morning and plus having a newborn baby in a shelter isn't exactly an easy thing to do, and, of course, there is a waiting list on all these government housing programs, so believe me, I'm trying, I know I have to leave and I want to but it isnt very easy to just open the door and walk out and trust me, if you've ever been in that situation, you understand what its like and what I dealt with while being homeless. Because everybody I talk to about this says "Just leave" Well thats what I did when I left my husband, I just left and look at what happened, I had nowhere to go, no food, no shelter, no nothing, so trust me, I do love to just leave, but unfortunately it is not that easy.

My daddy would have been there in a matter of minutes and the mf would be in the backyard 6 feet under ✋🏻 #italiansdontplay

He a fuckan sick bastard for saying that to you I would of broke his face

Um, no. Rape???? Fuck no.

Hell no leave his ass he has no respect for you are that baby he's not taking your situation into consideration at all he only thinking about himself

Rape??? Thats not something you should take lightly. You're pregnant with his child so he should have some more respect for you than that. Definitely showing red flags everywhere. You need to get out NOW!

Um what in the flying fuck. Red flags everywhere in this shit. See ya later buddy. Please let the door hit you in the ass. I cant believe you have had this convo more than once. He would be one lonely asshole with not a tooth in his mouth.

Leave him alone

I'm sorry.

... leave him. Leave him and never ever ever look back. If any man ever spoke to me that way I’d be gone within 24 hours.