🙄😒 growl, sorry, I need to vent! He spends the day with the kids alone, while I got the car fixed at one place, new tires at another, keys made for our pet sitter, got my face waxed, groceries, and picked up dinner... then we both separated the clothes, I packed one kids bag for our trip got another load of laundry going... packed up gifts to mail out tomorrow, then both kids started loosing their minds, because they were tired and feeding off the others emotions... now he feels like he’s having a panic attack... so it looks like after getting the baby to sleep now I’m going in to get my toddler to bed so he can go lay down! 😤😒 I know anxiety is a complicated thing... but when is it my turn to ‘have issues’?!? 😓 I always have to hold it together, and pick up what others ‘cant handle’ 😒
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@dreamermom ..wow you might be my twin..i have a son in college&works fulltime and lives at home.my middle son is a 9th grader that i take everymorning before i go to work drop him off at hs..and i go straight to work but....of course before i go i change my youngest son's diaper.put out outfits for the day socks short/pants .shirt&usually hold him in my arms while doing my hair&makeup ..my husband work s at night and stayed with the baby all day when i went back to work when he was 5 wks old.He does clean .laundry never have to ask but..on sun&mon my days off from work ummm 99%of my errands i have the baby w me..like yeah when do i shower midnight like usual so i totally get u.i take care of it all in my house
We are having a debate at work....
Should you pick up hitchhikers?
Am I a bitch? My husband wanted to go to lunch with a girl who's a friend but her boyfriend wouldn't be there. I threw a fit and got upset and he didn't go, should I have let him?
I can not stand when Josiah wakes up screaming because he’s still so tired but doesn’t want to go back to sleep... he wakes everyone up and then I have to deal with all 3 kids being hateful all day cause they woke up to early!! 😑😑 I already give up today...... have a nice day ladies!!
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@sherrynygirl, yeah, normally I try not to complain, he really does more than ‘most’ men, when it comes to the house and kids... but right recently, I’ve been super overwhelmed since going back to work... I just have so much shit to get done before we leave on Friday... I still have like 8 gifts I have not finished... and I can’t get the material cut without having help with the kids... tomorrow I’m watching 2 more kids, and then as soon as my husband gets home from work I have to leave for work myself, I won’t get home until midnight or 1am... so I literally have Thursday night to get all our bags packed, and get the materials cut and sewn for 8 gifts! 😫 it’s just NOT going to happen... I literally could cry! I’m so frustrated!