My mom is soooo against me getting my tubes tied and it's annoying so I finally talked to her after a couple of weeks because me and my sister had a fall out and she took my sisters side because she's her favorite child lol anyways she had asked me if my husband was going to take time off of work when I have my baby and I'm like yea I don't know how long he's gonna take off but yea and then she goes well your gonna be pain because getting your tubes tied is painful and I'm just on the phone rolling my eyes lol because I already made up my mind and this is just super annoying and plus my father in law lives next doks and our youngest is super close to him so I know he's gonna help us out a lot
@fallenwarrior80963, I'm 26 and I'm able to do it a lot of people where saying they won't let me because of my age then I heard you have to take a class but I asked my doc about my age and she said it was fine I just had to sign the papers but if I change my mind to just rip them up before I have the baby
@mommavee7, exactly I was trying to get fixed but my doctor refuses she said I have to be 30
@fallenwarrior80963, they say we are to young to stop having kids but we are going on number four and my husband is the only one working so we already talked about the pros and cons but it's just every one else in our families who are against it but it like I don't care they aren't the ones pushing them out or taking care of them financially
I always tell people is what I’m doing gonna hurt you no ok then not to be disrespectful but it’s none of your business if you end up wanting more adoption or surrogacy is an option don’t let anyone decide for you I’ve made a few decisions based on my mother in law and I regret them a lot she will get over it but you might not
@mommavee7 Haha all moms will put their two cents. Do what you think is right girly.
@kimpower, that's what I tell her I'm like I'm old enough to do whatever I want I don't need your permission lol
@fallenwarrior80963, I go to Altamed I don't if it depends on your doctor but mine was all for it lol