I am not a pushover I'm just really okay with a lot of shit. My husband does things that most women i know and have told me they would have left him years ago. But i know he's different no matter what people say. I have lived with the man for 9 years. I am pretty sure I know most of him by now. I do hate when he doesn't come home after working all night and sleeps in his car but I know that's all he did, my friend is convinced he's cheating...how is she freaking out before me? I'm the one with the baby haha.