Emotional hormonal blues 😢😔😴 tired run down feel really horrible about myself. I dodge y partners lately as just feel rubbish about how I look and I just look at myself n wonder who I am anymore. My babies 4months old and I know it’s normal feelings after having a baby but I just feel tearful and embarrassed by how awful I look. I know just going play groups but I still want to look half decent 🙄 I do try but I just feel tired all time even though Zachary sleeps well it’s just tiring in day and even when everyone’s in bed still million things to do. Sorry just having a moan does anyone else feel like this? Partly due to being active prior pregnancy and during and now I’m always aching and feel like an old woman backs in bits.
I’m going to start going swimming again and I guess I’ll start feeling like me again and have my hair done in couple of weeks just impossible wearing it down at mo as it’s always in way when git young baby.
Sorry ...one of those days 🤢
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Hon your going through so mich trust me I am feeling the same as you I just hide it well I guess. Your doing so well hon just enjoy Zach and take time for you doing things you enjoy when you can. You have two gorgeous boys which you made happen and be proud of how you are and look because your a beautiful mummy doing an amazing job XX
No need to apologise. That's what this apps for, I think all us mums have been through that. Those days where you feel like crap and everything you want to do or think would make you feel better, seems like being a mum is holding you back. But you're doing so well thinking positively. Getting a hair cut and going swimming should be so helpful to your emotional wellbeing. Just try and hang in there. As baby grows older you find more time to yourself to focus on yourself again. You will get yourself back. Just do the small things that help x
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
Good morning ladies. Sorry I been ignoring yall but I have been so miserable the past days I'M STILL PREGNANT my contractions would be strong for hours and it looked like I was gonna have a baby then everything just stopped so I got sent home. they said I have to wait till my appointment Wednesday so I can talk to my doctor about the next step. I HATE THIS 😢😢😩
TMI but I don’t want to talk to family about this. I’m tired of having intercourse with my fiancé. I feel grossed out like it’s with a stranger. If I can go months without it, I would. It’s been a week since we have done it and I’m pretty sure he will try tonight. The thought of it makes me cringe. We’ve been together for 9 years and it’s just ugh. 😣 Any thoughts ?
Strippers.
How do you all feel about your SO/hubby going to the strip club? I honestly have jealousy issues and I dont approve of it for my SO, as he already doesn't like too go. But i feel like if he wants to see women stripping on poles, I can be his own personal stripper. Lol ? I am just curious to see what others feel and think!
Day 3 of using the menstrual cup so far I like it but I find myself having to adjust it often. Sometimes I have to other times I don’t. Does anyone else have this problem? Like it feels like it’s going to fall out and the tip is sticking out a bit. Am I not putting it in right?
@carrie.anne19845, only just saw messages thanks ladies. Funny enough weekends I can actually look half decent Friday I oiled my hair in coconut 🥥 oil which I left In Over night it’s greasy as a plate of chips 🍟 but when I wash it out my scalp feels cleansed and not sore as it was prior it’s an amazing hair treatment for soothing sore dry scalp ladies. In the week I just don’t have the time to make myself look half decent and it does make you feel crap - your both so rite Thankyou it helps having this network as Carrie knows me personally it’s what I need after recent events. In January I’ll be starting my routine again swimming a bit of me time exercise ultimately makes you feel better and will take all my aches pains Away! Hope your both well had a nice weekend thanks for your support both x