Before I got pregnant I wanted like 10 kids, while I was pregnant I decided 2 kids was enough, now…
Before I got pregnant I wanted like 10 kids, while I was pregnant I decided 2 kids was enough, now I'm thinking 1 and done. My fiance has no opinion because he didn't really want kids in the first place, but he also wishes we had a girl. If I decide to have another one it'll be in about 3 years so I can hopefully have my son at least potty trained.
I keep thinking about this because people keep asking if I want another one. Some lady today told me I need to get pregnant again soon and I told her she is crazy and that I need to let my body heal first. Getting pregnant right after having a baby is something that's becoming increasingly common, but not for me. I would not be able to handle it. I just realized I'm kind of rambling... Ahh 4am thoughts.
deleted-user·
Mine are 3 years apart. It is perfect
Tayler·
Yes!! These were my thoughts exactly. When my daughter was 3 i started having baby fever but I waited until she was 5 to get pregnant. Mainly because I wanted to make sure she was in school and big enough to want to help and not be jealous! Of course I'm sure it will still be hard, but a little easier than if she was a toddler! Having 2 kids in diapers or 2 kids under 3 seems like it would be so exhausting to me.