Ok so I need y’alls opinion. My boyfriend has this cousin that he hasn’t even talked to in a while.…
Ok so I need y’alls opinion. My boyfriend has this cousin that he hasn’t even talked to in a while. She recently texted him just asking for our address to send a xmas card. I didn’t even know she existed and still don’t even know what her name is. His mom texted him asking if she was invited to the baby shower and when he responded with no, she said that his cousin is family and it’s the right thing to do. I’ve never met her in my life and don’t know anything about her. Like I said, I didn’t even know she existed in his family until 2 days ago. His mom hasn’t tried to help with anything regarding the baby shower, hasn’t even asked me how i’ve been feeling or what’s been going on. What am I supposed to do? We decided to have the shower at my house and my mom is already having an anxiety attack because we can’t fit all the people we Invited in the house to begin with. She’s planning this shower all on her own without anyone else’s help minus my best friend helping her with some things. But his family hasn’t tried helping with anything and hasn’t even reached out to me.
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Your house, your baby, your rules. Don’t want her? Don’t have her.
Maya 🐝·
Don’t feel obligated to invite someone neither of you know. Baby showers are a celebration for you and your baby. His mom has no say.
Tosha Gager·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
Just invite who u know if u don't have room then just tell people there's no room ur only doing curtin people
Malaina Heka·
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I agree with the girls above! Just because she’s family, doesn’t mean she’s family. It’s your baby shower and your choice if you want to invite her or not. Your boyfriend even said no, so that should be it. 🤷🏻♀️ If his family or mom hasn’t done anything to help you guys out then her opinion doesn’t matter. Especially since you had no idea she even existed and your mother is already struggling with the number of guests you already have. She can say family is family all she wants, but I’m sure to you your best is more like family to you guys than his estranged cousin is, but that’s just my thoughts on the whole thing. 🤷🏻♀️
Jada Cincere·
I definitely agree with the other girls if she was important you would've known about her if they were close you would've know about her so obviously they're not close your baby your house your rules it's whatever you want
Monica·
It's your shower, you get to choose who you want to invite. If you give in and invite people you don't know/like, you won't enjoy it as much.
JessTaylor G·
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thanks ladies!! I agree with all of you ❤️❤️