Ok ladies I need some advice. I had my baby girl on Friday and I’m so beyond in love with her. My fiancé has been amazing with her and with helping me. However he is going back to work on Friday and I find myself crying every night because I’m terrified of doing everything alone. I don’t know how to get passed this. I feel so out of control right now....
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@trisha.bonnert, oh k ur mom jst little time she hv will be enough, all the best u can do it jst be strong Mama
Even if she can drop by, bring you food or a drink, maybe hold the baby so you can have a minute alone would be super helpful. I was scared to be left alone with my baby too but when that day came it was fine! He slept mostly and I was busy it flew by.
@kambam, my mom can help but she also works a lot
@ut.2010, he works off hours... some days he doesn’t get home until 12am...
By going back to work means not 8-5 pm job where he will be home at night?
Do you have any family or friends who can stop by that day/week? Or who will be there urgently?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I know with my first son I did nothing but worry and stress. I never sat with a baby at all. They freaked me out. But it went a lot better at time. Just make sure you pay attention to your feelings because you don't want to start feeling down all the time!!