@mell_babie12, yes it was a lot

@smash6684 that is a big worry for me, that I won't give my first enough attention and that actually makes me want to wait cause I don't want my daughter to feel neglected

@ecahanes yea I am definitely trying to figure out the best time. We are in a predicament cause if we try Jan or Feb, the baby will be before Christmas, otherwise we want to wait until June cause we have a lot of birthdays and Christmas during those months. So we either try before feb or not till June. My Birthday is Dec, then Christmas, then our daughters bday. That is a lot of money hahaha.

@mell_babie12, not as hard as when baby is here. It's still very hard...I would wait at least until your first is a year and a half. Lol just my opinion though 😅 I barely sleep now . Mentally and physically a lot to handle

@ecahanes@smash6684 Was it hard being pregnant with another baby? I'm sure it made it more challenging cause the first baby was still fairly dependent.

@jaysixandcounting That Is Very Exciting! Was it hard having them so close in age?

@believeinbuddha I am an only child so I definitely want a sibling for my daughter. It is a must...just to figure out when to have the second one haha.

Mine are two years apart and it is very very challenging, personally, I wouldn't do it earlier

Two of my girls are 10 months apart, I call them my Irish twins because they’re born the same year but different month.

@mell_babie12 yes! It was challenging. But its so worth it. I always wished I had a sibling close in age when I was growing up!

@believeinbuddha that's awesome! If we get pregnant in January, or start trying at least, they will be 20 months apart. Was it hard having 2 little ones close together?

My oldest two are 13 months apart and they're best friends. They even get along well with their brother!