j_erin
Jessica Whitaker
At what age did your child get spanked? I ask because when I got home from work hubby told me he spanked our 7 1/2 month daughter for squirming during a diaper change. But she does it to scratch her butt every time we change her. Its nothing new to him. I got mad at hime because she is so young but that's my opinion. I know we should start them young to know what is right from wrong but 7-8 months seems too young....what do you guys think about it?
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bperrier
That's really sad and scary. 100% abuse.
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soul96
I would definitely not let him watch her. If he barley has patience changing a diaper imagine when she's crying because she's hungry. Is he gonna spank her. She's a baby not a 15 year old. Babies cry when they need something she can't talk or say hey this is bothering me. All babies squirm they move all the time even without a diaper change.
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lost.sock.thief
M@j_erin, google why spanking isn’t affective until a certain age and show him. He can get in trouble for child abuse spanking that young
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mamiforlife
@j_erin. Yeah i wouldnt stand for that id have a very long talk to him tbh she not old enough for that she doesnt comprehend that its hard to change her while she squirms even with my daughter i play with her while shes squirming during her changess and then say in a calm voice "okay lets put your diaper on now baby" and she listens just fine. That just sounds like he doesnt have the patience to deal with it. And thats not okay.
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tayler
@j_erin Girl you need to have a long talk with him about this. If hes hitting her over that little stuff, I wonder how he would act if she was doing something more aggravating to him? 😕
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j_erin
@tayler I tried telling him she's too young but he kept saying the same thing
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tayler
@j_erin Oh hell no girl. I'm sorry to say this but that's straight up abuse. I would be terrified to leave her alone with him after him saying that. Of course all children need to learn to listen to their parents and be respectful but your child is a baby!! She literally doesn't know any better.
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j_erin
@jskidsmom @tayler @taradee17 @melody_momof5 @jacqui2012.jl @damn.it.red @mamiforlife @mommiesgoneabitmad @mari_c @beemommyof3 @pinkblossom99 @skysmommy04 @ashleydunn @vvrobinson @zury88rivas his response was he believes in whooping ass that she needs to understand early. He even said he spanked his son at 4 months. I told him he needed patience and that she is just being mobile and he said he didn't care and that she needs to learn.
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lost.sock.thief
Babies are going to squirm during a diaper change and crawl away from you An roll that’s what they do because they wanna play they’re not doing it to be bad that’s just what all babies do
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lost.sock.thief
Kids don’t understand the meaning of being spanked before they’re two... my daughters 10months still no spankings
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soul96
Honestly that's too young. They don't know any better. As a parent you have to be consistent as in saying "no" when they are doing something you don't want them to, and they'll eventually get it. But spanking at 7 months is way too young in my opinion. My daughter is a year and still squirms when we change her diaper. It's just what they do, they're babies and he needs to be more patient.
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