My bd gets paid every week and he and I aren't together, but I feel like if he gave $50.00 a week I wouldnt have to (put the white man in our business) as he puts it. But he doesn't help out as much as he could. Yes he works and I don't but that doesn't mean I don't work . I'm taking on the roll as a Mother and selling baby cloths to buy our daughter more and myself but mainly her. I told him I'd keep the receipts and send them to him just to show I wouldn't be using the money for myself and he says no . minding you I'm Islamic and he was raised as a JW so our daughter is really the (Forbidden Fruit) I have filled out the child support but then by me not having a job he might use that against me. I don't want to lose my daughter to bs but ik him. Am I wrong for wanting him to do more ? He only gets her once every other month or week ( on his own terms) when my car was running I'd bring her to them I'd take him to work but I guess because I put my foot down and we aren't having sex anymore he's upset . idk I feel like I'm not doing as much as I can but I'm doing all that I can right now.
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@chelli thank you I'm trying to look up all the rights that I have, I mean he didn't sign the birth certificate either so I'm just trying to make sure I'm good on my part. I'm only 20 but Crescent is just one and this whole year has been a hassle trying to get her dad to help ik we are young but we did what we did and she's here.
No worries I've been through it. It's stressful I know, but unless he's a millionaire and you're homeless and on drugs. They won't see any valid reason to take a child from its mother.
@campey thank you really you saved me from crying tonight .
And all of that matters. Keep doing your job as a great mom and there's no way he'd be able to convince a judge to take your child.
@campey that's really reassuring . man oh man I've been feeling bad but I mean I do all I can I read to her study with her (numbers alphabets etc.) And im the one who sees her grow . I send pictures and all but someone said I can't push my daughter on him. He rather hang out than spend time with her I just want him to spend time with her. He feeds her meat when I ask him not too he laughs BC I have a ten meat but its my choice I knie the difference all she knows is hey I'm getting fed its hard to feed her when all we eat is soy bean (morning Star produce) and she tosses it I'm trying to be a strong mom but its hard all I wanna do it break down
They can't take your child from you because he works and you don't. He'd have to prove he's a better custodial parent. My oldest sons father tried that when I was in school because I wasn't working. He had minimal contact with my son and that was his choice. Even without a job and having my mom financially support my son and myself he wasn't able to take my son.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Totally irrational so please no judgement... baby daddy is over for visitation and he took Karoline's picture and it infuriated me. I don't want him having pictures of my daughter. He just posts them on social media and claims how we keep him from Karoline and what a great dad he is even though he doesn't do shit. How do I get over this mamas? I'm really struggling with it lately. I just don't want him to have any part, seeing him with my daughter disgusts me .
Creeped out!
A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped ou...
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
If not on the birth certificate he has no rights at all. He would first have to prove the baby his and in order for you to get child support you have to also.