So my sister has a controlling, abusive(occasionally physically but mostly emotionally) boyfriend and she tried to break up with him and he said no and he wasn’t leaving. I am really proud of her for sticking with it and she wants to kick him out of her apartment tomorrow but doesn’t know how... he isn’t on the lease. What is the best way to go about this?
@beccaaalynnn11, no... it’s mostly emotional.
- Unfortunately.. Do you have proof of that ? Medical bills, photographs ?
@beccaaalynnn11, even if he has been abusive?
- Then legally in the state of Texas you are required to give him written notice of eviction.. calling the cops won’t work, we can’t do anything if he’s paid bills. That makes him technically a tenant. So your sister needs to write him a 30 day notice.. And maybe she can stay with you during that..
@beccaaalynnn11, yes he has paid half of rent.
If he’s not on the lease I’d tell her to call the police and explain that she doesn’t feel safe. My best friend had to do this, the police officers helped him move his crap out of her house while she watched from inside. Then she filed a restraining order against him.
@jingle_belles yup. This. Have her write a letter to vacate. You or another adult serve the letter and give him the necessary notice. If he gets violent immediately call the police.
Seeing how he isn’t on the lease and they technically broke up he is trespassing if she don’t want him there. I’d call the police
She can have a officer stand there till he gets his stuff out and leaves
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?

My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
Has anyone else thought of this nonsense with her being weird, not having consistent information etc. as seeming a whole lot like the beginning of Glee with the fake pregnancy?!
- Yeah.. she’ll have to evict him.. sorry