So my sister has a controlling, abusive(occasionally physically but mostly emotionally) boyfriend…
So my sister has a controlling, abusive(occasionally physically but mostly emotionally) boyfriend and she tried to break up with him and he said no and he wasn’t leaving. I am really proud of her for sticking with it and she wants to kick him out of her apartment tomorrow but doesn’t know how... he isn’t on the lease. What is the best way to go about this?
Sammie Sanchez·
She can have a officer stand there till he gets his stuff out and leaves
Courtney Lochamy 🌙·
В ожидании первенца
Seeing how he isn’t on the lease and they technically broke up he is trespassing if she don’t want him there. I’d call the police
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@jingle_belles yup. This. Have her write a letter to vacate. You or another adult serve the letter and give him the necessary notice. If he gets violent immediately call the police.
Jessicka Lynn·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Call the police.
Raina·
If he’s not on the lease I’d tell her to call the police and explain that she doesn’t feel safe. My best friend had to do this, the police officers helped him move his crap out of her house while she watched from inside. Then she filed a restraining order against him.
R🦖·
- Has he paid any bills there ?
Elena Lee·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@beccaaalynnn11, yes he has paid half of rent.
R🦖·
- Then legally in the state of Texas you are required to give him written notice of eviction.. calling the cops won’t work, we can’t do anything if he’s paid bills. That makes him technically a tenant. So your sister needs to write him a 30 day notice.. And maybe she can stay with you during that..
Elena Lee·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@beccaaalynnn11, even if he has been abusive?
R🦖·
- Unfortunately.. Do you have proof of that ? Medical bills, photographs ?
Elena Lee·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@beccaaalynnn11, no... it’s mostly emotional.
R🦖·
- Yeah.. she’ll have to evict him.. sorry