I’m in the same boat as you, it honestly sucks

You guys just went through a lot of life changes at once. From moving, to a new job and now another baby? It’s going to be hard, when my husband and I first moved in together the first year was endless fighting and hatred towards each other. And everything was my fault.

You need to give it a chance. Give both or you guys space when you need it and try and focus on each other when you can. But again, you guys are going through a lot at once, this is very normal in relationships.

@hernandezmckinsey9512 don't give up... Hopefully this is just a phase, try an ultimatum

@motherof3boyz702, yea it sucks. Let’s just hope he actually listens

@hernandezmckinsey9512 omg have you talked to any one that's close to him that this is effecting your family...a little intervention

@motherof3boyz702, he’s gets completely hammered

@hernandezmckinsey9512 does he get drunk or just drinks on a daily

@motherof3boyz702, yea I will whenever he’s home and sober.

@hernandezmckinsey9512 definitely talk about it and get in the same page, so at least you know what your next step can be

@motherof3boyz702, that’s what I ask myself too. And honestly I have no idea if he wants to stay or not. Haven’t had a chance to really talk to him

@hernandezmckinsey9512 how your fault? Does he want to separate or stick through it?

@motherof3boyz702, he just became colder. He’s mean af 90% of the time. Started drinking more. Rarely talks to me. Everything is my fault

@hernandezmckinsey9512 wow that's crazy to months like a few months... Years... So " what's shit about your relationship"

@motherof3boyz702, almost 3 years

@hernandezmckinsey9512 how long were you guys together before married

@motherof3boyz702, idk he just completely changed after we got married

Sorry your going through that.... I've been with my dude on and off for over ten years never married but I get sick it the shit too... But according to my married friends this is life