Need some opinions working moms and stay at home moms (you are up just as many hours if not more) I work a lot of 12 h shifts (peds nurse)but lately including driving it’s been about 16h. Im having BH like crazy and when I sit down to let them calm down they do but since I’m a first time mom I was actually planning on working up until my son was born but now I’m re thinking it. When did some of you finally give in and tell your boss it’s time to cut back hours or take your maternity leave? I’m just starting to really feel it especially at night. Showers aren’t even relaxing anymore. 😒