@ib.crazyskittles18 it's not healthy. Speak to someone. A professional would be your best bet but if not anyone on here or that you know would work. Because I bet he's no where close to being good enough to being obsessed over and you just don't want to be alone which I get but it doesn't make it okay.

@mommy1991 yea im obsessed with him

@ib.crazyskittles18 your thought process is the problem. It should never take 3 years to get over anyone. They're just people. There's so many people in the world that are decent human beings. Again you're young. This is dramatic for nothing. He doesn't want to be with you and this baby. Stop harping over it because one day you'll be pushing someone away that cares about both of you so much it hurts.

@mommy1991 and my goal wouldnt be to find another relationship but if i ever do theres no guarantee it wont end up shit too

@mommy1991 first guy i fell in love with never dated him i cried over him for about 3 years pretty much until i met this guy nick now ive been "dating" him for over 3 years so pretty sure its gonna take alot longer for me to be happy on my own and i dont have patience for that not when its hard to get through one day let alone 365

@ib.crazyskittles18 that's not true. You're young. You'll see. You'll be much happier in a year or 2

@mommy1991 yes i know im doing it to myself and i wont be in another relationship

@ib.crazyskittles18 and if you don't think you'll feel different than you need to find an adoptive family because this beautiful baby deserves to be loved and not resented babe.

@ib.crazyskittles18 you can. People do this all the time with people tht actually give their life happiness. All you do is complain about this guy which I totally get because I would be doing the same exact thing but if you're not going to take the advice people are giving, which is clearly to get away from his toxic behavior, then you can't complain because at this point you're doing it to yourself. He's trash. And that's okay because you're not so he will only be trading down while you'll be trading up in the next relationship you're in.

@mommy1991 and really doubt im gonna feel different

@mommy1991 cant let him go

@ib.crazyskittles18 let this guy gooooooo. Holy shit!!!! You need to realise that you and your baby are on your own and that's okay. What would you rather? Being in a miserable relationship and having to deal with a baby or being able to live your life how you want and make uour own rules and not have to answer to anyone about anything especially on how you raise your precious baby? If you ask me you've been blessed. You got this. Once your baby is born you're gonna feel completely different. You're gonna turn into mama bear and not even want this idiot around you and your baby.

@loving-life because people can still see your horrible comments 👍

@hperry845 I've blocked you long time ago why are u still here?

@ib.crazyskittles18 people can and do change every day. Don't hold out hope that he will, but never say never:) either way, you can do this on your own

@loving-life I think you misunderstand the point of this app. If you can't say anything nice, please just keep quiet

Guys like that don't come around, sad truth!!!! I hate to say that but if a guy is not certain whether he wants that child or not he will not change because people don't change

#confused

Hopefully he comes around

@pnutbutta the day i told him i was pregnant he said he didn't want me to be a single mom and sometime in august he said it wasthe happiest dy of his life

@ib.crazyskittles18 u could have figured this all out by his actions though....but your right,it's good to hear from his mouth. What exactly did u hear though, he sounds conflicted

hes probably scared, guys can get really freaked out about it, my sons dad told me he was gonna kill both my son and i while i was pregnant and now wants to me in my sons life, obviously hes not going to be but he might not no how to react or how to handle it. not saying what he said said was right

Glad hes honest though its rare and makes me feel relieved I dont need any bullshit and lies

He is probably scared and might come around on his own time when the baby is born. Might... you can't hurry that along. I'm sorry your situation is not picture perfect now. All you can do is focus on you and your baby, you've decided to keep him so start preparing for a life with him.

Oh darling ,understand u well is hard to be a single mother ,but there is no way back ...and there is nothing we can do now ...I'm also upset of my situation ,but life is life 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️at least he gonna try to help u somehow ...don't deny any help from the baby father ...and let him do the best to support u and child