Feeling fed up 😞why since I’ve had my baby 👶🏼 do the good friends I thought were good friends just show no interest in spending any time with me or Zachary. It frankly hurts 😢 I’ve known these friend s for a few years now they are moms at the school where my eldest son goes. Now they’ve gone clicky and I did have a falling out with the one over something so redicoulas but now that’s got out of hand and now it’s like I’m the black sheep of the circle of friends I had. It makes me feel rotten and now I’ve had my baby no one is even interested they don’t even ask how he is...yet when their kids were babies I used to do things with the, and give them company and help with their kids ...yet now tables have turned there to busy to even care. Yet when I was pregnant they’d still ask me if I wanted to do things. Does anyone else feel this way? It can be lonely some days I do go to playgroups and enjoy the, and meeting new people but the days I don’t I can feel quite lonely and question what did I do wrong for them not to bother with me or show any interest In Zachary. 🤔😞
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It sucks when you realise your friends aren't actually friends. But once you realise that, it's actually more liberating. I can't stand fake friends or 'I'll be there when I need you friends'. I'm too old to be caught up in dramas. I'd rather have no friends lol. It can get lonely I get that. One of the reasons I went back to work! Forget about those who aren't real friends though.
Thanks all it’s reassuring knowing I’m not the only one although I am sorry you all feel same it’s not nice. I love spending time with Zachary and enjoy going to groups but it’s just the circle of friends I had that I feel hurt by that don’t even ask how we are or if like to meet for a coffee. But I guess it’s life people drift apart it’s just a shame as I used to go with them to groups when their kids were little. I guess you all know how it feels to and I appreciate your advice and sharing how it is for you all too. Glad for these groups because it gives us a network that we need hey ☺️ I’m here for you all to Thankyou
Know how you feel I actually only have 1 friend who bothers with me and some days I feel so low as I'm always by myself x
Im loney most days, I pretty much just sit on my own all day with my daughter, i have no friends 😕 its lovely and depressing. Hope your ok, always here if you need a chat @sineadbearfield
I hope you're ok I know how you feel I had slot of people round me when I didn't have my kids I have 2 beautiful children and my partner I don't have my mum or dad in my life but I have my partners mum and she is amazing my side of the family don't bother much just on the odd occasion I love them all but feel like I don't really have many peopl or friends in my life u know how you feel and what you're going through !! You have done nothing wrong if they were true friends they would be by you're side being the best friends they can be so don't think that you've done something wrong I felt like that I still do but I have my partner and my beautiful kids and that's all that matters !! Hope you will be ok xxx
@sara-lou86, I agree completely with you!