So I finally broke up with my boyfriend of three years and father of both of my children not just for reasons that just affected me but affected my childrens well being for now and the future and I'm trying so hard to be strong and think positive thoughts but it's so hard especially at this time of night my brain is going in a million different different directions my heart is broken and I just really would appreciate and be grateful for some encouragement or words of wisdom or even if you're going through it or have been through it what you did/doing to cop and heal