Just when sleep time becomes bearable its become unbearable 😴 she now expects a night feed again, keeps kicking me and…

@mum2sky, will do xxx enjoy rest of your day

@nisha25 no problem hun and please do. And I definitely will x

@mum2sky, I got some cabbage in my fridge already lol will definitely be doing that starting from tomorrow . Thank you very Hun will defo keep you posted xx let me no if you find a solution to sleeping

@nisha25 yeah that's what made me stop. The teeth. But that's good that he understands. I'm telling you hun wrap your breast in cabbage it'll soak up all the milk and before you know it it'll be gone. After a week I never saw my milk again. It was a god send. And then they're forced to go onto cows milk. Let me know how the weaning goes x

@mum2sky, I’ve thought about going cold turkey so many times 😂. I think it shouldn’t be that hard since I’ve already cut out daytime feed so he no longer grabs at my top for day time feed 😂now he search for it at night lol. I think I will give it ago because breastfeeding is too much now especially when he has a lot of teeth already lol

@nisha25 fingers crossed. I cut out the night feed first and only gave her it during the day but I found that confused her a bit she still expected it during the night. So I went cold turkey. I wrapped my breasts in cabbage 😂 and she never went back haha not saying you have to do that but if you're desperate it works lol x

@mum2sky, 😂😂😂awwww.. I told my self I will start this week when he was during the night I will make a bottle and try keep to it because I want to stop breastfeeding before January lol finger-crossed. Xx

@nisha25 trust me. Omg I breastfed till 8 months and I think that contributed to the co sleeping. I used to ko with her attached to my breast. Then at 8 months I stopped and she went into bottle but because of the comfort she now won't leave...like a squatter 😂 I think it will improve once hes on the bottle. Hopefully hes not like my little one and yes hun good luck and I'll need it too x

@mum2sky, loll awww bless him lool. That’s very true because there so small we give in I definitely give in to get a little sleep lol. I’ve managed to stop breastfeeding through the day now just need to foot my feed down for need feeds. Good luck to us both lool

@genieh you're right. I'm going to start again after christmas. I think aswell because we have a 1 bedroom it's hard because she can see me right there she doesn't see the point in being on her own bed lol but I'm going to try again in the new year and see how it goes. Because before I could sleep now she keeps playing and hurting me so she needs her own space lol x

@mum2sky omg! Poor guy! Only thing you can do is persevere! When she wakes up make sure she ends up back in her own bed- even if you have to get her out and fall asleep with you make sure you put her back in her cot! It's crap cause it means us parents get no sleep but it really does work after a few nights they realise! You gotta show 'me who's boss! 😂 it's so hard when you're tired though! X

@nisha25 lool he's so used to the sofa now when he sleeps in the bed he will leave half way through the night aswell because skyla will practically sleep on him 😂 and yeah we do but it's so hard when they're small to not want them near you. Owell you're right we have learnt for future babies to come haha x

@mum2sky, oh wooow he must be fed up aswell, my partner chooses to sleep on the sofa sometimes because him and my son are both bad sleepers lol. The things kids put their parents through but we defo have our selfs to blame sometimes 1st child problem lol we will do better next time around. Hopefully we find something that works wonder ASAP

@genieh would you believe me if I told you my partner's been on the sofa for about 10 months 😩 I just don't know what to do. And similar to @nisha25 if I transfer her into the cot she will wake up maybe 2 hours later and scream the flat down and refuse to go back. I blame myself so much for no persevering but like you said it's worse when they're ill and teething and my daughter had terrible colic she would only sleep next to me. Now I'm paying for it. If any of us find a way please share 😂 x

@mum2sky, it’s very difficult I have to make sure he’s fully asleep while laying on our bed with a pillow then I pick him and the pillow up and slowly put him in the cot but he will wake after a few hours and will cry each time I try put him back in his cot . He use to sleep in his cot fine until 7months now he’s 10months nightmare!

Same for me😴 she used to be so good I could just put her down in her cot and walk away and she'd go straight to sleep and sleep through! But then everytime she cuts teeth she gets a horrible cold so refuses to settle unless she's on me so I've ended up co-sleeping and now she's only just going back in her cot and that's from soothing her and letting her fall asleep on me or OH and then putting her down or sometimes letting her cry it out😧 it's bloomin' hard work but it got to the point where I hadn't slept in the same bed as my husband for like 2 weeks! X

@nisha25 it's so difficult I should've never co slept. If you find a way to do it please share. I think I might need to tire her out more during the day and take her play group so she sleeps through

I know the feeling 😞I’m currently trying to get my 10month old sleeping back in his bed he to wakes up for a night feed