@drriches, I know it’s probably one of the hardest things to deal with because for a while you’re gonna have doubt no matter what but it’s up to him if he’s actually sorry and willing to realize he did wrong take responsibility and not blame you because idc what they say it’s never about you it’s about them they chose to betray us but as long as he realizes what he did and is ready to show you you are his world let you set some boundaries with him but you have to really sit down with you two and talk it out without yelling at each other and ask why and although it’s not an excuse men are stupid and are scared to tell us things like they will get in trouble so they aren’t open with us when they should be every guy is gonna look at another girl or end up with a crush but as long as you give him a safe space to talk with you without yelling so he can say hey babe this is how I feel about this person or I’m feeling alone unloved whatever the excuse is for why he did this so you guys can be like well I hear you I understand you I’m here for you let’s talk about this if you feel this way about her it bothers me if you talk to her I think it be best if you kept away from her and what can I do to make you feel more loved and vice versa it’s not gonna be easy but if y’all love each other and are good together it may be worth it like I said though you really got to pay attention to his body language and see if he really is sorry and he really wants redemption otherwise it will happen again

@fallenwarrior80963, before this I was the happiest woman on the planet. He violated. I dont know how to come back from that.

How has he been with you otherwise I mean if he’s amazing to you and made a bad choice this one time I’d think about maybe fixing it but that’s up to if your relationship is worth more than him doing this horrible thing trust me I get it my husband and I have had some rough times but he has changed as a person and he’s becoming and amazing father and husband it takes some work but sometimes working it out is worth it

My heart literally breaks for you it’s disgusting that he could do something like that to u and come back and disrespectful you and your child. Hunny dont think for a second its you i looked at your profile you are literally gorgeous. He lost his mind. Try eating the tinest of snacks every now and then i know its hard but its very important. Im praying for you and your family hun♥️