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babyjjsmommy
babyjjsmommy
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

Please tell me how to even go about reacting to this shit. My SO was in the shower and one of his friends was leaving…

Please tell me how to even go about reacting to this shit. My SO was in the shower and one of his friends was leaving somewhere with his gf or whatever she is. Colby asked if she had big boobs in part of the conversation and if he had a picture and he'd swap a pic of me and my big belly for that. He said no but he had a bikini pic. At first I thought he's probably joking because he knows I'm sitting right outside this damn door. Then the friend actually goes to show him the picture and he goes that ain't too bad..

THE F YOU WANNA LOOK AG ANOTHER FEMALE HALF NAKED FOR?! I'm fucking livid I'm sorry. I haven't even said anything bc I don't know how to not completely go off right now.

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lovvechung

Sierra Tran

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@babyjjsmommy, I hate when they act like they care about your feelings! NIGGA DID YOUR ASS THINK ABOUT ME WHEN YOU DECIDED TO SEE THEM TITS!?

lovvechung

Sierra Tran

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@babyjjsmommy, exactly then want to give you the look of shock when you turn into a she devil! Nigga no you basically asked for this shit.

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

@lovvechung, girl I'm petty too! I try to fight it most of the time, but damn. They almost egg that shit on with things like this!

lovvechung

Sierra Tran

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Cause like my husband had the same issue he always got on Instagram looking at ass and tits till I found out so I got on my insta looking at dicks and balls. And he got in his feelings! Nigga so! I can’t stand dudes that think it’s okay to do stuff but expect them

Women to remain loyal.

lovvechung

Sierra Tran

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

But I bet you anything tho let me have been your friend on that phone talking g about some fine ass guys. And sending you pics of dicks and sexiness bet you he would turn sour in 2.5 secs

lovvechung

Sierra Tran

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I’d still want to fight. I’m so hormonal pregnant it would make me more mad that he was apologizing I’d want him to feel how I felt. But I’m black I’m petty af lmfao!

spicybpancake

R🦖

Мама двоих (младенец)

- And you know what I would be the most upset about? Him trying to sexualize my baby bump. Men have no respect for intimacy sometimes.

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

@powerfulmom21, they were in the same room and his friend was showing it to him, and I hear the whole thing as I was sitting right outside of the door 😒 and if it was a joke, he should've known I could hear knowing I was sitting right there on the bed! You'd think when he saw me ignoring him and not talking back with him immediately after, he'd pick up on it and say something like it being a joke or whatever. But that definitely didn't happen.

powerfulmom21

Jahmellia Otto

Мама двоих (младенец)

I wouldn’t respond neither if its a joke why did he send the picture then

spicybpancake

R🦖

Мама двоих (младенец)

- I’m a bitch. I’d ignore him; and he upset with him, until he made an effort to fix it .. lol that’s just me though.

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

@beccaaalynnn11, usually I respond and go back and forth but never had this situation come up, so who knows.

spicybpancake

R🦖

Мама двоих (младенец)

- Even if you don’t respond and accept it ?

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

@beccaaalynnn11, nah that's probably it 😂😂

spicybpancake

R🦖

Мама двоих (младенец)

- Is Colby the type to apologize with a gesture or is that message it ?

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

@beccaaalynnn11, oh I'm definitely not.

spicybpancake

R🦖

Мама двоих (младенец)

- I wouldn’t even respond to that..

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

..

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

@damiensmommy1117, @theinkedmommy, @kateyez5, @rikki.ferguson, @powerfulmom21, @lovvechung, @beccaaalynnn11, so here's how it went down. Don't even think I want to reply right now.

del_1518022477_pregomego

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@theinkedmommy, ok

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

@theinkedmommy, I freaking love her. She makes all kinds of videos like that!

del_1547503967_shadiestladyintown.

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@babyjjsmommy, WHO IS SHE. I’m pretty sure she just became my spirit animal. 😂😂😂😂

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

@pregomego, nah, definitely not. I just don't tolerate bullshit like that because it's disrespectful and wrong. If you do, then that's you. 🤷🏼‍♀️ honestly even if we'd been together that long and married I'd still feel the same.

del_1547503967_shadiestladyintown.

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@pregomego, I’m not mad at my man. 😂 My point is, most women don’t enjoy their man being shown half naked or naked photos of other women. Personally I could care less, because I have no insecurities. 🤷🏼‍♀️

del_1518022477_pregomego

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@theinkedmommy, i believe you said she was wearing a bikini and half naked. I’m not trying to argue with you. I just don’t agree with you. You asked how to react, i gave my opinion. You don’t agree with my opinion. End of story. You are mad at your man, don’t take it out on me.

del_1547503967_shadiestladyintown.

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@pregomego, I guess we’re all blowing it out of proportion lol. No woman wants another man showing his friend nudes of someone else. 🤦🏼‍♀️

del_1518022477_pregomego

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@theinkedmommy, I’ve been married for 10 years and i think you are blowing it out of proportion. That being said it’s not my relationship and I’m not pregnant right now.

del_1547503967_shadiestladyintown.

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@pregomego, Why would his “friend” be showing him photos like that, knowing that he’s in a serious relationship and that she’s carrying his child? That’s just a dick move on his end. Not attacking you, just showing a different situation.

del_1518022477_pregomego

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@babyjjsmommy, ok

denisah417

Denisa H

Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

Um wtf..... that’s in no shape or form ok. He’s out of line & so is his friend. Fucking children..

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

@pregomego, no I don't actually. If I do "look" it's not at them half naked and wanting to see their dick 🤷🏼‍♀️it's extremely disrespectful to do that shit when you're in a serious relationship with someone you plan to marry and when she's the mother of your child.

del_1518022477_pregomego

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Do you honestly not ever look at another man?

lovvechung

Sierra Tran

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@babyjjsmommy, that’s if he even asks if he doesn’t ask just fucking throw something at him real hard till he forcibly says wth?! Then be like you like looking at other girls boobs now or no wait pretend to ask a girl if you can see some guys ass naked haha!!! And if he asks wtf be like I learned it from you!

spicybpancake

R🦖

Мама двоих (младенец)

- Did you bust that door open ?

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

@powerfulmom21, @lovvechung, I literally don't even know where to start! I'm in the living room with his parents and he's back in his room watching the game. I should've said something right after but I'm just gonna ignore him and act like a butch until he asks what's wrong so I can full fledge let his ass have it.

lovvechung

Sierra Tran

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Bitch it’s fighting time!!! Girl if I was there both our asses can go in!!!

powerfulmom21

Jahmellia Otto

Мама двоих (младенец)

GOOOO TF OFF period !!!!

del_1547503967_shadiestladyintown.

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@babyjjsmommy, That’s completely uncalled for. I’d be pissed too.

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

And the thing is.. this belly won't always be here. 🤷🏼‍♀️but a shitty personality like that.. can't guarantee that'll go away.

moonchild.

Rikki🌙

Мама дочки (1 год)

Bitch him the fuck out

babyjjsmommy

babyjjsmommy

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)

@damiensmommy1117, @theinkedmommy, I'm just thinking to myself.. have you lost your fucking mind?! The shit I put up with already and you wanna say some dumb shit like that... lol might wanna rethink that.

kateyez7

Kat

Многодетная мама (5 детей)

Girl I would go off

del_1547503967_shadiestladyintown.

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This. This is why I can’t date people my age. 🤦🏼‍♀️

del_1519170273_damiensmommy11176

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Girl go off! Let his ass have it.

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?