Please tell me how to even go about reacting to this shit. My SO was in the shower and one of his friends was leaving…
Please tell me how to even go about reacting to this shit. My SO was in the shower and one of his friends was leaving somewhere with his gf or whatever she is. Colby asked if she had big boobs in part of the conversation and if he had a picture and he'd swap a pic of me and my big belly for that. He said no but he had a bikini pic. At first I thought he's probably joking because he knows I'm sitting right outside this damn door. Then the friend actually goes to show him the picture and he goes that ain't too bad..
THE F YOU WANNA LOOK AG ANOTHER FEMALE HALF NAKED FOR?! I'm fucking livid I'm sorry. I haven't even said anything bc I don't know how to not completely go off right now.
Sierra Tran·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@babyjjsmommy, I hate when they act like they care about your feelings! NIGGA DID YOUR ASS THINK ABOUT ME WHEN YOU DECIDED TO SEE THEM TITS!?
Sierra Tran·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@babyjjsmommy, exactly then want to give you the look of shock when you turn into a she devil! Nigga no you basically asked for this shit.
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@lovvechung, girl I'm petty too! I try to fight it most of the time, but damn. They almost egg that shit on with things like this!
Sierra Tran·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Cause like my husband had the same issue he always got on Instagram looking at ass and tits till I found out so I got on my insta looking at dicks and balls. And he got in his feelings! Nigga so! I can’t stand dudes that think it’s okay to do stuff but expect them
Women to remain loyal.
Sierra Tran·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
But I bet you anything tho let me have been your friend on that phone talking g about some fine ass guys. And sending you pics of dicks and sexiness bet you he would turn sour in 2.5 secs
Sierra Tran·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I’d still want to fight. I’m so hormonal pregnant it would make me more mad that he was apologizing I’d want him to feel how I felt. But I’m black I’m petty af lmfao!
R🦖·
Мама двоих (младенец)
- And you know what I would be the most upset about? Him trying to sexualize my baby bump. Men have no respect for intimacy sometimes.
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@powerfulmom21, they were in the same room and his friend was showing it to him, and I hear the whole thing as I was sitting right outside of the door 😒 and if it was a joke, he should've known I could hear knowing I was sitting right there on the bed! You'd think when he saw me ignoring him and not talking back with him immediately after, he'd pick up on it and say something like it being a joke or whatever. But that definitely didn't happen.
Jahmellia Otto·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I wouldn’t respond neither if its a joke why did he send the picture then
R🦖·
Мама двоих (младенец)
- I’m a bitch. I’d ignore him; and he upset with him, until he made an effort to fix it .. lol that’s just me though.
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@beccaaalynnn11, usually I respond and go back and forth but never had this situation come up, so who knows.
R🦖·
Мама двоих (младенец)
- Even if you don’t respond and accept it ?
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@beccaaalynnn11, nah that's probably it 😂😂
R🦖·
Мама двоих (младенец)
- Is Colby the type to apologize with a gesture or is that message it ?
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@beccaaalynnn11, oh I'm definitely not.
R🦖·
Мама двоих (младенец)
- I wouldn’t even respond to that..
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
..
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@damiensmommy1117, @theinkedmommy, @kateyez5, @rikki.ferguson, @powerfulmom21, @lovvechung, @beccaaalynnn11, so here's how it went down. Don't even think I want to reply right now.
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@theinkedmommy, ok
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@theinkedmommy, I freaking love her. She makes all kinds of videos like that!
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@babyjjsmommy, WHO IS SHE. I’m pretty sure she just became my spirit animal. 😂😂😂😂
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@pregomego, https://www.facebook.com/NicoleArbourfans/videos/10155901370987907/ this explains it pretty well.
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@pregomego, nah, definitely not. I just don't tolerate bullshit like that because it's disrespectful and wrong. If you do, then that's you. 🤷🏼♀️ honestly even if we'd been together that long and married I'd still feel the same.
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@pregomego, I’m not mad at my man. 😂 My point is, most women don’t enjoy their man being shown half naked or naked photos of other women. Personally I could care less, because I have no insecurities. 🤷🏼♀️
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@theinkedmommy, i believe you said she was wearing a bikini and half naked. I’m not trying to argue with you. I just don’t agree with you. You asked how to react, i gave my opinion. You don’t agree with my opinion. End of story. You are mad at your man, don’t take it out on me.
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@pregomego, I guess we’re all blowing it out of proportion lol. No woman wants another man showing his friend nudes of someone else. 🤦🏼♀️
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@theinkedmommy, I’ve been married for 10 years and i think you are blowing it out of proportion. That being said it’s not my relationship and I’m not pregnant right now.
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@pregomego, Why would his “friend” be showing him photos like that, knowing that he’s in a serious relationship and that she’s carrying his child? That’s just a dick move on his end. Not attacking you, just showing a different situation.
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@babyjjsmommy, ok
Denisa H·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
Um wtf..... that’s in no shape or form ok. He’s out of line & so is his friend. Fucking children..
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@pregomego, no I don't actually. If I do "look" it's not at them half naked and wanting to see their dick 🤷🏼♀️it's extremely disrespectful to do that shit when you're in a serious relationship with someone you plan to marry and when she's the mother of your child.
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Do you honestly not ever look at another man?
Sierra Tran·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@babyjjsmommy, that’s if he even asks if he doesn’t ask just fucking throw something at him real hard till he forcibly says wth?! Then be like you like looking at other girls boobs now or no wait pretend to ask a girl if you can see some guys ass naked haha!!! And if he asks wtf be like I learned it from you!
R🦖·
Мама двоих (младенец)
- Did you bust that door open ?
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@powerfulmom21, @lovvechung, I literally don't even know where to start! I'm in the living room with his parents and he's back in his room watching the game. I should've said something right after but I'm just gonna ignore him and act like a butch until he asks what's wrong so I can full fledge let his ass have it.
Sierra Tran·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Bitch it’s fighting time!!! Girl if I was there both our asses can go in!!!
Jahmellia Otto·
Мама двоих (младенец)
GOOOO TF OFF period !!!!
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@babyjjsmommy, That’s completely uncalled for. I’d be pissed too.
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
And the thing is.. this belly won't always be here. 🤷🏼♀️but a shitty personality like that.. can't guarantee that'll go away.
Rikki🌙·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Bitch him the fuck out
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
@damiensmommy1117, @theinkedmommy, I'm just thinking to myself.. have you lost your fucking mind?! The shit I put up with already and you wanna say some dumb shit like that... lol might wanna rethink that.
Kat ·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Girl I would go off
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This. This is why I can’t date people my age. 🤦🏼♀️
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Girl go off! Let his ass have it.