If you caught your SO watching porn would you consider that cheating? Would it bother you? Or would you just shrug it off?
I would be ok with it. They can't touch the girls in the videos and he's not out with someone else. Let him have his porn
i wouldnt care. small things to a giant. it doesnt hurt me shit i watch porn too & we have sex so 🤷 and i would be so annoyed if my husband got mad at me for watching porn.
I'd be a Lil butt hurt at first cuz we usually watch porn together. And we watch it cuz of me 😂
@mommyirene lol ya know there's alot of women that make a huge deal about it and some women just shrug it off.. all depends I guess. I've been with my boyfriend going on two yrs and I have yet to catch him with open, or even signs.. he is older then me so maybe that's the difference
@boymom_, I’ve noticed he only watches it when I don’t have sex with him. It didn’t really bother me. I found it funny and immature. Lol. But i wasn’t sure if me not really getting upset about was weird. Lol.
@mommaofjais I said that same thing to my ex, but then I looked at what he was watching . . U know men have a type of open that they like 😂
My ex always watched it.. I never understood, we had sex 24/7 & he literally always watched it.. maybe cuz he was a few years younger then me.. it did bother me at first, but then I decided I rather have him doing that then cheating on me.. if he were watching it and not having sex with me then I would really be bothered. It can be seen from so many points of views, hope your ok!
@drea_93, it really doesn’t bother me and I didn’t know if that was normal. Lol. I feel huge and heavy lately so I’m not in the mood to have sex. So I guess I’ll let it slide. Haha
@mikailahandbaby, I thought it was hilarious. I even laughed when I said it.
It is what it is. My husband has admitted that sometimes it's easier and less tiring to do his business himself then have sex and I'm okay with that. Especially with having two kids. Also, when I was pregnant it was hard for him to want to have sex becuase he always thought about the baby in my stomach and it would turn him off lol. Which was fine becuase everything hurt when I was pregnant lol. Don't worry top much about it. As long as he's not interacting with women in real life I wouldn't consider it cheating.
@mommaofjais, I kinda get why he does watch it. I haven’t been sexually intimate with him lately and I know he has his needs. So I guess I’d rather him watch that than go out and physically do it with someone else. I agree. Everyone has there own thought about it. It was just on my mind this morning. So I wanted feedback. Lol
@mommyirene, I'm sorry, but that is a grand response/reaction to catching him 😂 I love that you said that, haha.
The only reason it would bother me is because I’d feel like I wasn’t good enough I guess. But like @mikailahandbaby said everyone sees it differently.
@mommaofjais, @mikailahandbaby, caught mine last night watching it. Well I heard it. And I just knocked on the bathroom door and said “instead of watching porn you can come have sex with me” lmfao. But it’s not the first time I’ve caught him and it doesn’t bother me. But I don’t like that he does it.
Personally, it wouldn't bother me and I don't consider it cheating, but everyone sees this differently.
Honestly I’m okay with my husband watching it. We have an agreement, he tries with me depending on if I’m in the mood or just want to nap? And as long as I can’t hear it? Then i don’t care. Besides every man kind of needs that fake world sometimes 😂 they can’t fully handle reality I’ve learned. Hahah