EDIT: Food for thought: Do you guys believe it's possible to be close with the opposite sex? Aside…

Nope

No they’ll always be an attraction it’s human nature

Idk, when I was “best friends” with a guy I developed feelings for him lol

My husbands best friend is a woman and I honestly could not care less lol mostly because she’s a lesbian..but also because she is the sweetest person alive and spoils my kids 🤗

@shellbell0391 idk though. Bc I've had best friends that I was never attracted to. Literally. 🤔

@skysmommy04 I feel like that doesn't apply to everyone though. Idk.

@vegasmomma lmao love your honesty.

@sunflowerchildmamaa, true

@vegasmomma that's awesome.. But I honestly think no lesbian has eyes for only females ... They've all had a taste of men and I think all women lesbo,bi, or wtvr goes back to it

@sunflowerchildmamaa I think you can have a bf/close friend opposite sex and not be attractive but still lead to something

@motherof3boyz702 true. I've had best friends that I knew way before my husband. And now they're more like close friends rather than best friends. I always put my husband as my bff first. I've never had any attraction towards them though.

@motherof3boyz702, that may be true for some but I have never once considered her even sort of a threat. She has become just as big a part of my life as his. I trust her and I trust my hubby. I mean when I was younger a lot of my best friends were male and nothing ever became of it. I think it just depends on the friendship

@vegasmomma yeah I think the last sentence is a big factor. Growing up all I had were mostly male friends. And like two girls that I was super mega close too. And I stopped talking the the girls but my guy friends are still close. Even that we've moved on and all have our own families.

@sunflowerchildmamaa, exactly!

Yes ! My best friend is a guy and he’s been in my life longer than any female friend

Ehhhh... I thought this was okay, my husband also had a best friend who was a female, she also happened to be a lesbian. I wasn't bothered by it and well, she very much looked like a dude, so what did i have to worry about and I trusted him. Her and her girl friend broke up and she confessed to my husband that she thought his intentions were more and not just friends and came on to him, he declined her invite to her vagina. He didn't do it in a nice way, as you can assume he broke the friendship up instantly. Well, she then decided to spread a rumor saying the whole time they were friends, they were having an affair. If I didn't put 2 and 2 together, and caught her lies, she would've ruined my marriage.

So, personally, no! People are crazy these days and you never know someone's true intentions, no matter how much you may think you do. If it works if someone else that's great, I don't judge. But never again. And majority of my male friends that I had, at one point or another about got their hands cut off when they were drunk.