I need to vent... So i been living in this for about 5 months now i fell down the steps 4 times nd i told my husband…

@toshagager1988 lol oh god no.

. i gotta start thinking about my little family

@mommy2be2018 that's how it always works I bet u won't do that again

@toshagager1988 yes its the best feeling n the world but we thought we was doing gpod by moving n with his dad to help but it seems like we made a mistake

@mommy2be2018 oh good it's nice being on ur own especially once u have a baby we moved when our son was 6 weeks and it was wonderful

@toshagager1988 yeah we are moving once the baby comes .. We just gotta hold on until then

@mommy2be2018 we are women we can do anything we're strong and amazing it will be frustrating and hormones don't help but u will get through this I hope u guys don't have to stay there long or that things change

@toshagager1988 oh so you really know what im talking about... Well if you can get throgh it so can i

@mommy2be2018 ur so welcome and I do understand my hubby and I lived with his mom during my 1st pregnancy so had to deal with his lit bro and all of his friends

@toshagager1988 thank you nd also thank u for understanding where im coming from too

@mommy2be2018 I know and it shouldn't be like that they are old enough to learn responsibility I hope it all works out for u and I think that falling might just put u in labor worse case due to the stress of it

@toshagager1988 yeah me nd my husband try to teach them that its not ok but then there dad comes home nd makes it seem like its not a problem.. Its not like i want to just stop helping them but no one besides my husband is trying to help teach them.. Im scared one day i fall nd it's a bad one nd my baby dies.. Then what you know

Maybe take a few days or a week and see if anything changes I hope it does just like it took 3 days for my kids to get pie cause they didn't want to get their chores done before bed time

Yay don't do stuff for them my children know better cause I taught them to clean up after them selves and they appreciate everything I do for them but they are my kids and in my home I don't care who's kid u are u will respect my rules but seems how it's not ur home no don't do for them if they can't do for u it's not that hard to not put something down where it doesn't belong and u shouldn't have to worry about falling down steps when ur pregnant or not

@pettybetty but like i said before im pregnant nd me falling down the steps can hurt or even kill my baby thats something that needs to change.. But thank u tho

@mommy2be2018 well like I said. It was just my opinion. And I'm my opinion, yes it's wrong. But to each their own hun. Hope it gets better for you.

@pettybetty im not there mom they have a dad who should be doing more.. We only moved in here to help his dad with the rent not to do half of the things we do.. There dad dont cook or clean or make sure there homework is done so for me to only ask them to keep there stuff off the steps is a small thing compare to the shit there dad ask me to do on a every day base

@mommy2be2018 okay like I said it was just my opinion. My kids are not slow but my 10year old often forgets to put her things away. I don't baby her but I do understand that she is a child.

@pettybetty it would be different if they was younger or didnt know better they know how to clean when they want money or when they wanna go outside.. Nd it would also be different if i wasnt pregnant as well its not just me im worried about i have to think of my child as well.. These keys are not slow nd there is nothing wrong with them.. The fact that their dad baby them is the reason why they get away with so much

That would be like me telling my child, ya know what since you left your scooter in the walkways... I'm not gonna cook supper for you. Since you didn't do something for me, I'm not gonna do for you....

I feel like they are kids. That's pretty normal kid stuff. Kids learn responsibility and accountability at different ages. You however are an adult, so to just stop doing things you normally do would just be spiteful and not teaching the children anything other than how to be spiteful. But that's just my opinion.

@morganmommy79 yea we pay rent.. More then what we should but i feel like they dont appreciate anything i do n this house

I would only do my share for staying there. If you pay rent then just clean up after yourself. Let them be responsible for themselves. That would be annoying to deal with