ugh so future brother in law girl has moved in and I am still doing all of the cooking and cleaning cause as soon as bro in law leaves for work she goes to bed sighs and after our mutual friend seen her apartment there is no hope that she will be helping so as soon as SO gets his taxes back we are moving out only if he doesnt get in the military but goal is this week too get his state is renewed so that i can get his birth certificate and ssc mailed to the house so we can start that process before he turns 36
@lana30319 thats the thing i didnt know section 8 in my city until it was too late cause there are a lot expensive for even a 2 bedroom and the most we can afford is like 700 a month so now have to keep checking for it
Girl that is your roof! You helping her out she need to know the house rules. As an adult nothing in life is free. Not even a ass whooping! And girl if I was you she don't do nothing she don't get nothing! I understand about living check to check. You have time to get things together. Just stay focus. And stay on top of the government! They will drag and drag things.
@ninaberrygood15 that bridge is burned i can move back there if need be but not my SO him and my mom almost got in a fist fight if they are around each other too much they buttheads
@kimberly.jo.herlinger, I meant to your moms
@ninaberrygood15 kinda hard to leave early when we are basically living paycheck to paycheck thats why we said when we get our taxes back
@kimberly.jo.herlinger, there is God who heals all things. Pray!! I would leave early. I pray everything goes well for your mom.
@ninaberrygood15 yeah i know that is why we are trying to get out of here as much as possible my mom is going in for back surgery thursday morning and told him if he wants we can go 2 days earlier than we would have cause wouldnt have gone over there until Friday possibly thursday to help out with my mom for the weekend shes having back surgery and praying it goes well cause they only gave her 30% success rate to be able to walk after wards and 70% she wont be able too
@kimberly.jo.herlinger, 🤦♀️ see that’s messed up.
@ninaberrygood15 lol i leave that to my SO hes already snapped on the girl for the PDAS in front of our son to the point were hes doing things like grabbing boobs and butts of his grandma, me and his aunty not to mention opens his mouth to kiss people just the other day I was changing my clothes and he put his head between my boobs and I am like what are you doing daddy doesnt even do that
@kimberly.jo.herlinger, again oh hell naw. You are a good one. I would snap.
@ninaberrygood15 its called if it doesn't get done will have ants and flies in the house again and i just got rid of them all
@kimberly.jo.herlinger, I understand. I would stop doing shit for them so they can understand tough love!! They are taking advantage of you guys and they know your going to do it anyway.
@ninaberrygood15 it wouldn't be so bad but she has all these food allergies and we have said things to them about helping but nothing has come of it that is why i said as soon as we get either or taxes back or hes able to rejoin the military we are leaving
So why keep doing it? Why are y’all afraid to speak up?
Does anyone like their in laws?
With all the posts about terrible in laws I was just wondering if anyone actually likes their in laws?!?! I love me in laws. I'm blessed to have such a wonderful immediate and extended family. My mil loves spending time with my boys. She comes over at least once a week and will sleep over. She gets up with the boys in the morning and let's my husband and I sleep in. My fil is a great man also. He's always coming over to visit and do some odd jobs around the house...
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he pos...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
cats and babies
My so and I haven't been able to have cats for years. Last year we moved into our own house. So says we can have a cat now.
Home ? getting to know each other
There are a few new people so thought id start a post so we can get to know these people ? il start
Wow that is cheap for a 2 bedroom. My 2b/2b is 900. And it sucks that enrollment is not opened year round. And I hope in your case when it opens back up again that it won't be a long wait.