LADIES QUICK QUESTION!! Is it me or as a new mother don’t you get tired of people telling you what to do with your child? Like I understand and respect that they’re just trying to help and give me some advice. But I feel like In a way I’m being forced to take it. Even my own mother told me I was a lazy and selfish mom because I didn’t want to take her advice. 😔😔😔😔
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@briannahill1293 honestly it doesn't change as they get older they still tell you... But u learn to ignore or say how u truly feel as they get older bc ur annoyed of it by now lol.
@briannahill1293 my mom tried to tell me not to feed my dog something early in my pregnancy and I told her that with my dog and I think it clicked to her then. Im hoping anyways
@ashtonndamon, exactly!!! That’s what my mom doesn’t understand. I completely appreciate your suggestions however I’m not and don’t always have to to take it and when I don’t I don’t have to explain to you why. This is my kid and I’m gonna do what I want regardless of what you say
@kairev2017, thankkkkkk youuu I thought I was the only one. I just want to scream sometimes “shut the hell up” Lol seriously. It’s so annoying
I am scared of the same thing. So my way of going about it is going to be "yes I would like your opinion. No that doesnt mean I will feel the same but I would like to hear it anyways" then if it does help than cool but if it doesnt then you dont feel obligated to take it.
It is completely normal. I've told people that while I appreciate the gesture she's still my child and I'll raise her how I want.
i feel the same exact way. then you have the people that say “i have X amount of kids, i know what i’m saying” you’re not being selfish for not taking the advice you’re just being your own kind of mom