LADIES QUICK QUESTION!! Is it me or as a new mother don’t you get tired of people telling you what to do with your child? Like I understand and respect that they’re just trying ...

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LADIES QUICK QUESTION!! Is it me or as a new mother don’t you get tired of people telling you what to do with your child? Like I understand and respect that they’re just trying to help and give me some advice. But I feel like In a way I’m being forced to take it. Even my own mother told me I was a lazy and selfish mom because I didn’t want to take her advice. 😔😔😔😔

Nitza 👑 · Answer

i feel the same exact way. then you have the people that say “i have X amount of kids, i know what i’m saying” you’re not being selfish for not taking the advice you’re just being your own kind of mom

Sarah Seelbaugh · Answer

@briannahill1293 honestly it doesn't change as they get older they still tell you... But u learn to ignore or say how u truly feel as they get older bc ur annoyed of it by now lol.

Ashton Chesla · Answer

@briannahill1293 my mom tried to tell me not to feed my dog something early in my pregnancy and I told her that with my dog and I think it clicked to her then. Im hoping anyways

Brianna Hill · Answer

@ashtonndamon, exactly!!! That’s what my mom doesn’t understand. I completely appreciate your suggestions however I’m not and don’t always have to to take it and when I don’t I don’t have to explain to you why. This is my kid and I’m gonna do what I want regardless of what you say

Brianna Hill · Answer

@kairev2017, thankkkkkk youuu I thought I was the only one. I just want to scream sometimes “shut the hell up” Lol seriously. It’s so annoying

Ashton Chesla · Answer

I am scared of the same thing. So my way of going about it is going to be "yes I would like your opinion. No that doesnt mean I will feel the same but I would like to hear it anyways" then if it does help than cool but if it doesnt then you dont feel obligated to take it.

Margaret Cox · Answer

It is completely normal. I've told people that while I appreciate the gesture she's still my child and I'll raise her how I want.

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