So my SO just called me while I'm at work saying I need to work less because he can't deal with the baby alone. Granted she's only 2 months and since she's breastfed she probably only wants me. But when he's at work for 10 hrs I have her by myself plus his other 3 kids. I feel like its not fair. I want my own money and I want to be able to get out of the house. Am I being selfish?? He had 3 kids already before we had her, he should be able to do this!