This next year and a half is going to be an Challenge for me and my kids. Living with my bd and we not even together and we not even talking to each other. Smh how is this going to work I can’t stand him at all anymore he makes me sick. Sometimes I want to just walk out but I have no where to go and I won’t leave my kids with him. He don’t even see us working thing out in future anymore it seem to me that he has already moved on with someone else. What should I do mommies????
@misscoco, that’s all I can do girl they the only reason y I have not went of the deep ended yet lol
@msgina26 damn I understand. Hold on for those babies Mama. The bullshit doesn't last forever and it's always repaid.
@misscoco, am so miserable 😭 being here like is so super hard living with a bd and he as no type of filter for has mouth he will say how he feels and not care about how it makes u feel
@msgina26 yep. I've never been in that position exactly but i did move over a thousand miles away from my family to be with my babies dad and ive had to go through a lot with nowhere else to go.
That's a hard situation! You're doing what you can for your babies. That's being a good mom when you put your feelings aside for them. I would just do all I could, get resources, save up, and dip out asap
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
Creeped out!
A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped ou...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
@msgina26 I know the feeling . I get criticized all the time for always being in mommy mode but i cant help it. It keeps me going