@miniwolfe, that's exactly what I think. My dad is always asking where he is at every time I go over, cause he's never there. It's embarrassing for me to show up without him, cause I know everyone is probably thinking we aren't together. He thinks he isn't being inconsiderate and sees nothing wrong with what he did. He told me we should've done 50/50 gone to both. But I don't see the point. Both our family's had a dinner at the same time, and we lived with his family for like 2 years and spend thanksgiving with them for both years and Christmas. Not to mention on a Christmas that I was still pregnant his mom sent everyone to the rooms like at 10pm because she wasn't having a good day, and didn't want anyone in the living room.

@miniwolfe, my family is leaving for Christmas, and my grandma came from a different county to spend thanksgiving here, so I wasn't going to miss it. We lived with his family last year and spent the holidays with them last year. I thought it was fair to spend at least thanksgiving with my family and Christmas with them. Apparently he didn't think so, and refused to go to my moms house. He never goes to my side of the family's house.