I don't know what to do at this point. I do not want my grandma's shitty ass husband holding my son,…

I don't know what to do at this point. I do not want my grandma's shitty ass husband holding my son, but thanksgiving is at their house. If I let everyone else hold my son and not him then one of two things will happen.

1. He'll flip out and cause a scene and kick us out, causing an even bigger scene with the rest of my family.

2. He'll go sit in his room and pout and take it out on my grandma later when everyone leaves.

We could just say we don't want anyone holding him yet and try to sneak around her husband to have people hold him, but if we get caught then 1&2 are still just as likely.

I don't even feel like going anymore. I don't want to deal with this bullshit. I just want to fucking relax with my family without having to walk on egg shells for that stupid piece of shit. I can't wait to move so my grandma can away from him. I'm so fucking emotional goddamn it.