UPDATE ALL : i’m single .

@raquely, i wasn’t playing on have sex w my friend.

@raquely, in my situation , that’s the one phrase i’ll bluntly ignore .

Leave your bf and go see your friend

Just my opinion I don't think you're doing anything wrong if he's going around cheating you know he gets what he deserves and I would tell him as of today that you're done and you're doing what's best for your child because your daughter because your daughter doesn't need to see that it's an unhealthy relationship and if you continue to stay in it you're just lying to yourself and this is best for you to tell him it is over and go back to who makes you happy are finding somebody that does but I certainly weren't staying that when my boyfriend was cheating and beating up on anything I'd left him so hope you do the same

@numberonetaylor527 you need to start building that confidence back up! Find ways to do that. Go out with friends more, take a mommy and me class, pick up a hobby, something that gives you more independence and joy every day. Remind yourself that you don't have to be stuck with anyone or treated in a way you don't want to be! There are lots of guys out there that would love to be with a woman like you, you just have to find them 😄

@believeinbuddha, you are right . no trust NO LOVE . i lost myself in this relationship to the point where i compared myself to other ppl constantly . i an a VERY Confident female and he brought me down to my absolute worst . when things are good there good and everything is well but , i can’t haven’t and won’t ever forget the bad things . i’m never going to be the same .

You should leave one relationship before you start another. Regardless of the terms you don't want to start a new relationship with bad blood. I wouldn't jump into a new situation so quickly until you have taken care of yourself first.

@numberonetaylor527 just my opinion that it isn't a healthy relationship! You need to be dating someone you can trust who doesn't get mad at you or try to control you. That is what I would want in a man. Not someone who would get mad at me for having thanksgiving dinner at a friend's if he isn't even going to be here.

@believeinbuddha, i’m going to go because he’s leaving for the military soon , i just don’t want my bf to be mad at me . i don’t wanna end on bad terms . he should be understand seeing as what we have been through but he isn’t at all . he just thinks because he stop talking to ppl LAST WEEK , i don’t have the right to feel how i feel . we’ve been dating a year and 3 months

Go

I would break up with your boyfriend for cheating first of all. It sounds like your relationship isn't heading in the right direction to me. If you want to go to your friends for thanksgiving go head and do it!