Definitely the diapers! Let me know if you need anything. I was solo the first 2 months too, it's rough but it gets easier. Focus on your little man!

@familyislife121417, i think the Dollar General brand is what tore him up cause i switched to pampers last night and put some a&d ointment on it and it looks better.

@cassidy11 I agree with @kimny it might be the wipes or even the diapers... With my daughter I had to wash out all her wipes in the sink b4 I used them cause he down stairs got all red and raw like bleeding raw.. it broke my heart.. but once I starting washing her wipes out it cleared up... and my son could only use luv diapers for a while cause every other type gave him diaper rash

@kimny, see he’s been working the past 4 days. ended up not coming home one night and sleeping on the floor of the house they were doing HVAC for and got 2 hours of sleep. (empty house no one lived there.) but he made up for that lost sleep last night and slept until 11 am.

@cassidy11 my son had a similar issue around 2 weeks and it turned out the wipes I started making my own wipes and it cleared up. Things will get better just hang in there. You sound like youre doing the best you can and that in itself speaks volumes. In terms of your fiance, unless he has to work and you don't I say wake him up. Even if it's for a diaper change.

@familyislife121417, my issue is that my sons private parts are swollen and red and no one will listen to me. he screams when you change his diaper and it breaks my heart. i have to call his doctor in the morning but i feel like if i turn away or leave the room while he’s sleeping then something will happen so i’ve basically shut myself in my room with my son watching him and making sure he’s breathing. might just be a ftm thing.

@cassidy11 I did that with my first and second I was pretty much alone with both.. my second I actually was for first month... it's hard but you can pull threw it b4 long your lo will sleep in longer and longer just remembered to rest when he's resting and try to relax to.. I would have my babies nap in bouncer in bathroom with me while I took a relaxing shower si I could keep a eye on them.

@familyislife121417, it wouldn’t be so hard if someone would just listen to me and help me at night. my fiancé doesn’t help much during the day and he never wakes up at night. i feel like i’m running myself ragged.

I was also not ready honestly, but we got this! I've been told by many that the first month is the hardest. We just have to push through, be brave mama! 💕

Being a parent is hard for pretty much every body it doesn't mean your failing as a parent.. just do what u feel is right.. and if you get over whelmed ask someone to baby sit so you can get a break... just because your a mom doesn't mean you don't need any time to yourself... it'll get easier