Once again it’s phil and ashley on a team instead of phil and I. He defends his sister with EVERYRHING. We had thanksgiving at our house yesterday and his sister and her family spent the whole day cooking with their mom and me (which is actually their dad’s house also, so lots of people!) After dinner they literally packed up food for their house and left. They didn’t help clean up ONE thing. I said something to phil today in a very nice way and he snapped at me. He literally said “you let these things get to you because you are hormonal” my question to you guys would be, would you be mad if you were left trash and platters and platters and dishes upon dishes of dirty shit EVERYWHERE?! Or is that not a big deal at all?? Am I just being hormonal?
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@aboutellesbabes I'm sorry, my ex's family was like that and I had to pretty much ignore them.
@tibi2696, unfortunately they are the type of people who would immediately go on the defense and attack everything I’ve ever done to them 🙄 they are extremely defensive and can be very mean @denisse.m, I think that’s what I’m going to do. I’m just going to say screw it and NEVER do any type of holiday dinner at my house again!
Yeah I'd be upset, are they nice enough people that you can talk to them about it without them blowing up on you?
@aboutellesbabes, It’s like they don’t care and at that you’re pregnant that’s even worse to do to someone, i would had said something to my boyfriend side of the family. I wouldn’t do anything for next year. If they want thanksgiving they can host at their place.
@denisse.m, @t143, it’s literally taken me all last night and today to clean all of the pots and pans and platters and dishes and cooking utensils everywhere. We cooked so much food! I would never do this to anyone. I feel like they just don’t respect me at all.
Maybe they were raised different? I know with my family we help clean up first and then if the person hosting suggests to take food we pack food and go.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do
I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and a...
I swear he makes my day!
My SS came over and first thing he did was hug me and said happy Mother's Day! I swear I cried when I went to lay down in bed, I literally just walked in the door from an hour walk, I took off my shoes and I hear a knock it's him and grandpa Phil lol and I swear this boy is amazing lol.
Rant: Dishes!
Does anyone else just HATE doing dishes? I would rather do any other chore over dishes. What household chore do you hate doing? P.s. I actually love vacuuming and folding clean warm laundry.
Been watching Seeking Sister Wives, would you do it? Share your husband? Personally I would be happy to join a family but I don’t think my partner has enough love or patience.
@aboutellesbabes, i can’t stand when people are like that, you guys are supposed to be family and help each other out not be mean to each other