I hate that my S/O makes certain comments without considering my feelings first or even thinking in general before he says things like this maybe I’m over reacting but I’m 3 months pregnant with my hormones all over the place and he says things like “well you wanted this” whenever I say I don’t feel good or whatever else and stuff like “well it ain’t my fault” when I told him trying to vent to him about the fact that I think I have a UTI when I never even said anything was his fault.. it takes two people to create a child and no one is forcing him to stick around if he really doesn’t want part in this he can just go because now I’m starting to get really irritated with his remarks..
@maurissaerhardt, my husband is the same way.. men r just programmed different.. most of the only think about themselves! Half the time I don't even speak to my husband when he wants to talk dumb shit out his mouth... I don't even tell him nothing about what's going on with me and after an few days he will ask and I keep it simple "I'm fine" mother fucker lol
With hormones jumping for us try not to take it personal,I try not too but it's hard sometimes. Cause I know if I was in my right state of mind (not pregnant) I would fuck him up with what comes out of his mouth lol
@damiensmommy1117, I mean he’s been supporting me most of the time and has been sweet until lately after he told his parents about the pregnancy and it honestly hurts. But I agree with you thank you hun! ❤️
My fiance was the same exact way for most of the pregnancy until he could feel the baby moving he eased up on the comments and now that the baby is here he is absolutely in love with him. It's a lot harder for them to connect to the baby and some men deal with it badly. I know it's hard to deal with, but if you think he's going to be a good daddy and if you guys are in love you should try to push through it basically. It's a rough patch.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I ...
i finally let him do it
I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that t...
@meg503, true lol you’re right thank you! ❤️