Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I do that.. I’m like 🤷🏽 ♀ it wasn’t right........ Our other friends are saying that he’s giving her a hard time and that he sleeping on the couch, not eating her food and won’t talk to her.. she’s not talking to me (of course) & I now feel like we could have handled it in a different manner ... idk seeing a grown man cry like he did was just heart breaking!
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
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My fiance was the same exact way for most of the pregnancy until he could feel the baby moving he eased up on the comments and now that the baby is here he is absolutely in love with him. It's a lot harder for them to connect to the baby and some men deal with it badly. I know it's hard to deal with, but if you think he's going to be a good daddy and if you guys are in love you should try to push through it basically. It's a rough patch.
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@damiensmommy1117, I mean he’s been supporting me most of the time and has been sweet until lately after he told his parents about the pregnancy and it honestly hurts. But I agree with you thank you hun! ❤️
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@maurissaerhardt, my husband is the same way.. men r just programmed different.. most of the only think about themselves! Half the time I don't even speak to my husband when he wants to talk dumb shit out his mouth... I don't even tell him nothing about what's going on with me and after an few days he will ask and I keep it simple "I'm fine" mother fucker lol
With hormones jumping for us try not to take it personal,I try not too but it's hard sometimes. Cause I know if I was in my right state of mind (not pregnant) I would fuck him up with what comes out of his mouth lol
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@meg503, true lol you’re right thank you! ❤️