TMI but I'm concerned on what's going on
Ladies I have a question. Have any of you experience a burn sensation when you pee? When I sit down there's a specific spot down there inside the "gate" that feels like its being stretched. I'm bleeding too like I'm on my period. I asked hubby if he could see what's wrong because I thought I might have cut it from shaving. He tells me my girl looks like its been done raw but we haven't done it in months and I don't have anyone on the side. He has been accusing me on so many things leading to infidelity and I've talked about this to others and they tell me "if he's accusing you of cheating that means he's doing something like that behind your back. The accuser is the one who is doing the bad deed". And it has me wondering too about what he's doing while I'm working. But back to topic, has anyone experience this months after giving birth or is this like a late side effect to implanon or what's going on because i haven't a clue. He took a pic for me to see and where it looks like a ball there's little spots that he said looks like rug burns from being done raw. Not sure if that even makes sense. It has a sting when I try to relieve myself and with that I have to kinda control my muscles down there so it doesn't hurt as much when I go to the bathroom. I have thought about it being an infection or something AJax can't wash off but thing is he's the only guy I've been with and if I have a permanent infection it has to be from him because i never had anything of the sort. If it is from him he must be going around cheating. I just need to understand and hopefully know what's going on with my lady area.
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Yea I get u sometimes it gets hectic someone getting irritated when u haven't done anything. It's overwhelming, but whatever's the case go to the doctor so you'll know and feel better
@blujul8 its not that I'm jumping to conclusions. I have been wondering. He yells at Me of infidelity
@joanna.davis so true nobody should jump to conclusions.this verse helps me to remember to not act with my emotions but think clearly. "a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger"proverbs 15:1. U can always go to the doctor, we as women(our body) can surprisingly go through a whole bunch during and after pregnancy.
@j_erin some STD's can lie dormant in your system for years before ever showing any symptoms.
i understand how u feel... if i get a uti or yest infection or n e thing my dude thinks im cheating..like wth its normal 2 start getting things when u get older..its gotten to the point where i dont tell him if im having problems down there bcuz he will hust accuse me of somethjng n it gets annoying... but def. see a doctor and see what they diagnose u.
Definitely go to a doctor. But neither of you should be jumping to conclusions about the other cheating. It is entirely possible for STD's to develop in completely monogamous relationships.
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Definitely go to a Dr even if it's just a uti it can get worse