For me we have two kids been together on and off going on 8 he was always out and about after work. He would never appreciate all the things I did for him while pregnant. I was in school with both my pregnancies and he would use my car. I would just try to be submissive and respect him as the man of the household until one day after class I fell asleep woke to him and his lady coworker who was married by the on the couch being nasty. I packed my stuff after beating both their ass left and ended up in the hospital. After that I stupidly forgave him after four months and we still hit our bumps and we can’t seem to get along when we like be together but the love or lust is still there. I honestly don’t even know if I have an answer because I’m still going through it. I recently left the state him and I resided in because he was not being a full time father, hell he wasn’t even being a part time father he was more of a prn. I thought it would wake him up and make him grow up but he’s just complicated and a pain. And we’re two broken people and it’s a lot

The biggest problem we have is communication.

Hi, mom of soon to be 3, with my husband for 5 years, married for 2.
I would only leave if it got physical.
Everyday, we kiss no matter what. We spend time together even if it’s for an hour, no phones. And have a show we both like to watch together. And we pray together every night.

Been with the same guy for 11 years with 2 kids. If he's not sacrificing everything for you and your kids! If he's not paying y'all no attention and if he's not willing to actually work on himself and your relationship!