literally so sick of taking care of the baby by myself. SO doesn’t do anything but hold the bottle every once in a while and then gets angry when i snap. both of us are first time parents, but he doesn’t even ask if i need help. ugh!
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@cassidy11, Yupp I know exactly what you mean! I was the only one that woke up whenever the baby woke up in the middle of the night and I still wake up with him every morning. I do this only because my husband works and I’m a stay at home mom. I definitely know what you mean about it taking a toll on you. I got used to it after a while though. It’s definitely hard, but we have serious Mom strength! You will get through it alive 😚 lol
@dazzlingmommy, i’m currently taking a warm bath and relaxing. my soon to be mother in law went and talked to him and he burped the baby and got him to sleep. he’s getting better about it, just the whole waking up by myself to take care of the baby is starting to take a toll on me.
^^ What she said!
My husband was so scared to do anything but hold our son when he was a newborn! He wouldn’t admit it though but I could tell. It definitely took him some time to get comfortable with caring for the baby. After a few months they were crazy for each other and still are now!
Even though it comes natural to us- it’s not quite the same with the men. Try to give him some time to warm up. You want to allow him to form his own relationship and bond with the baby. You don’t want to force it. I know it’s hard for both of you guys (especially you!) but try to take it easy. Your baby can sense what you two are feeling ☺️
@dazzlingmommy, he doesn’t work, he just watches netflix and plays video games 😒 i finally got pissed enough and walked out of the bed room and the baby started crying so he took over when his mom came in there. he thought i was gonna come to the rescue lol nope this momma went and took a bath 😂