I feel so pathetic. I wasnt thinking of labor classes till it was to late. Now none are open. So I can't get help. And now I'm stressed and depressed and feel horrible. Like if I cant even get this situated how am I going to be a good mom? I'm just tired of fucking up and I cant seem to stop. And its just stressing me out even more! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I'm scared
YouTube! I watched a great labor class on there. Really it just made me less nervous. I kept saying I didn't want to pay the moneyfor a labor class since I was going to have a baby one way or another. Lol.
I didn't watch any breast feeding things or go to a class, but I had a lactation consultant in the hospital. Except I felt so stressed during it because, come to find out, I have flat nipples. So it was hard anyway. And I didn't know that because I was I supposed to know my nipples are different from anyone elses?
You are not a bad mom. And infant care.... Is common sense. You get your instincts. Plus, for a while all they want is a clean diaper, feedings, and attention. So as long as you cover that... They're happy.
Girl I didn’t do any classes. But the good thing is your nurses instruction are literally step by step and the explain everything. Don’t be afraid to ask them for help, that’s why they are there! I would just say get your self 2 people to be with you in the delivery room. It helps to have a good team. 😊 and if you still think you need something else you can definitely watch YouTube videos!
@fr3dfr3dburg3rfu all us mom's can help you (:
@fr3dfr3dburg3rfu the nurses will show you how to latch your son just make sure his or her mouth is over your whole nipple/areola and infant care they show you how to bath and change the baby. Feed every 2-3 hours
Just like the first poster said. YouTube! Doesn't make you a bad mom at all!!
@mommy2bean @sevrinanicole. Oh they made it sound so important and I mean I guess it would be to come extent. Like what about breast feeding and infant care classes?
@fr3dfr3dburg3rfu I didn't either. The nurses are very helpful and show you what and how to do everything.
I think the classes are really for easing your mind if you are nervous. I went to a 4 week express class. As soon as labor came...everything I learned in class went out the window. Lol
@fr3dfr3dburg3rfu I haven't even done a class or youtube. Decades of women haven't done them and got through it. You'll be fine. Plus the doctors and nurses will coach you through your breaths anyways. Women I know that have done those classes say they forget everything once in labor. It's just a waste of money honestly.
@noturprops @pregnancytalk101. Thanks ill try to keep it in mind lucky my fiance has had a kid so he can help in some ways. But its still my peace of mind that i can do it.
I never had one class....and I consider myself a good Mom. Trust me, your body is an amazing thing and knows what to do when it comes to labor. I was scared but my instincts kicked in. You've got all of us here to support ya so don't feel alone! Xoxox
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My child is NOT disgusting just because he has HFMD. I feel beyond awful that he even has it, but now I feel like facking shat since my family makes it seems like he's so disgusting. I'm just gonna lay in bed and cry ??
Ugh I love being pregnant but I'm always so freaking angry! I rage out so hard😒 I'm always stressed and i just feel like I'm in this alone 😑
I'm so heartbroken.
We were only gonna get my son presents for Christmas but now we can't even do that. ?? (as my car needs 800$ worth of work done) I feel so sh*tty. I just wanna crawl into a hole and not come out.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Ladies, I'm so freaking excited and happy right now that I am UGLY crying at work !! My doctor just called me because he got my blood results back, baby is good and I'm having A BOYYYY!!! I cant believe after all I've been through I finally get my boy !!! Thank you Jesus !!! I want to surprise Tim, any ideas of how I can surprise him for when he gets home from work tonight ??? Let's hear it.
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@mommy2bean @jessicameneses2910 @princessrose Thank you guys so much! That helped! A lot now I'm actually let stressed ill watch some YouTube and my fiance actually found a free class for us ^-^