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Chrysta ·Мама сына (7 лет)
I feel so pathetic. I wasnt thinking of labor classes till it was to late. Now none are open. So I can't get help. And now I'm stressed and depressed and feel horrible. Like if I cant even get this situated how am I going to be a good mom? I'm just tired of fucking up and I cant seem to stop. And its just stressing me out even more! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I'm scared
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Chrysta ·Мама сына (7 лет)
@mommy2bean @jessicameneses2910 @princessrose Thank you guys so much! That helped! A lot now I'm actually let stressed ill watch some YouTube and my fiance actually found a free class for us ^-^
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Courtney·Мама дочки (7 лет)
YouTube! I watched a great labor class on there. Really it just made me less nervous. I kept saying I didn't want to pay the moneyfor a labor class since I was going to have a baby one way or another. Lol.
I didn't watch any breast feeding things or go to a class, but I had a lactation consultant in the hospital. Except I felt so stressed during it because, come to find out, I have flat nipples. So it was hard anyway. And I didn't know that because I was I supposed to know my nipples are different from anyone elses?
You are not a bad mom. And infant care.... Is common sense. You get your instincts. Plus, for a while all they want is a clean diaper, feedings, and attention. So as long as you cover that... They're happy.
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Jessica·Мама дочки (7 лет)
Girl I didn’t do any classes. But the good thing is your nurses instruction are literally step by step and the explain everything. Don’t be afraid to ask them for help, that’s why they are there! I would just say get your self 2 people to be with you in the delivery room. It helps to have a good team. 😊 and if you still think you need something else you can definitely watch YouTube videos!
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Jodeci Franklin·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
@fr3dfr3dburg3rfu all us mom's can help you (:
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Jodeci Franklin·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
@fr3dfr3dburg3rfu the nurses will show you how to latch your son just make sure his or her mouth is over your whole nipple/areola and infant care they show you how to bath and change the baby. Feed every 2-3 hours
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Just like the first poster said. YouTube! Doesn't make you a bad mom at all!!
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Chrysta ·Мама сына (7 лет)
@mommy2bean @sevrinanicole. Oh they made it sound so important and I mean I guess it would be to come extent. Like what about breast feeding and infant care classes?
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@fr3dfr3dburg3rfu I didn't either. The nurses are very helpful and show you what and how to do everything.
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Sevrina Perez·Мама троих детей
I think the classes are really for easing your mind if you are nervous. I went to a 4 week express class. As soon as labor came...everything I learned in class went out the window. Lol
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Jodeci Franklin·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
@fr3dfr3dburg3rfu I haven't even done a class or youtube. Decades of women haven't done them and got through it. You'll be fine. Plus the doctors and nurses will coach you through your breaths anyways. Women I know that have done those classes say they forget everything once in labor. It's just a waste of money honestly.
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Chrysta ·Мама сына (7 лет)
@noturprops @pregnancytalk101. Thanks ill try to keep it in mind lucky my fiance has had a kid so he can help in some ways. But its still my peace of mind that i can do it.
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Chrysta ·Мама сына (7 лет)
@mommy2bean never thought of that thanks
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I never had one class....and I consider myself a good Mom. Trust me, your body is an amazing thing and knows what to do when it comes to labor. I was scared but my instincts kicked in. You've got all of us here to support ya so don't feel alone! Xoxox
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Jodeci Franklin·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
Youtube
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