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Kendra

Everyone wants me to stop working so I can stay home w my son, but I just can’t see myself being a stay at home 😞 I’m…

Everyone wants me to stop working so I can stay home w my son, but I just can’t see myself being a stay at home 😞 I’m really torn between what to do

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brownsugarluv

A J

Don’t do it for someone else’s happiness. You’ll end up resentful.

You gotta do what’s best for you and your son. Kids need their mama’s the most. Always be aware of what’s going o. With your son and you can still have a successful career.

Good luck. I hope it all works out for the best!

drea_93

Andrea Soto

Мама двоих (младенец)

Don't do it if your having doubts. It's not for everyone. I have been staying home with my kids for almost 2 years now. It takes a lot of patience and getting use to. For a while I did resent my husband for being able to leave the house to go to work.What helps me keep doing what I'm doing is knowing that I couldn't leave them with anyone else and not feel anxious all day long. It also helps that my almost two year old, when sitting in My lap, has told me almost everyday, "I'm so happy." Like @brownsugarluv said though, you can still be successful in your career and be a great mom. Just think of if in terms of quality not quantity. There are plenty of parents who stay home with their kids but are on their phones all day with little to no interaction. Be present for the time your with your child and that's all that matters.

diegosmommy0213

Harmonie

I been for five years n my son will b four so I feel ready now to go bk to something

madilynn16

madilynn16

Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет)

I enjoyed staying home with my son when he was little. I was able to teach him so much. And spend so much time with him.

domsmama96

Kendra

@brownsugarluv, it’s not for anyone else’s happiness . It’s for my son, because right now I have a lot of different people watching him, people that I trust, but still . I know he’s in good hands but they’d rather I be with him. It’s very complicated sorry if I just confused you lol

domsmama96

Kendra

@madilynn16, I love being with him and i want to be his first teacher you know? It’s more of the financial aspect that I worry about.

domsmama96

Kendra

@diegosmommy0213, I’ve never been a stay at home and I just like to have my own money you know?

diegosmommy0213

Harmonie

@domsmama96, I hv my own money n his lol

diegosmommy0213

Harmonie

@domsmama96, it’s nice tho to stay home but I’m ready to go bk my son alil bigger now

domsmama96

Kendra

@diegosmommy0213, so how do you do it? Does he give you a certain portion of his money? Sorry if that is too personal

diegosmommy0213

Harmonie

@domsmama96, he gives me his whole check ea wk

diegosmommy0213

Harmonie

Kinda old sch here