So my husband and his baby momma have a agreement for my step daughter about visitation , money and weekends and now holidays . But she still choose what weekend and when we get see her so what's the point of a agreement right ?? So Thanksgiving is coming and on the paper it says " father will have her on Thanksgiving " we yesterday in person to confirm so later on we won't have issue with her , says " you can have her only half of the day " we mad and told her that it's our turn this year . She had her for all holidays last year . What to do ??