Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Omg ladies my 3 year old just asked me if i have sex with her daddy!!! I dodged that question so fast but ladies really my daughter is growing up too fast and too smart for her own good. I dont even know what to tell her if she ask again I thought i had a little longer before she asked that. I texted my husband telling him and he just laughed. He is no help.
TWW!! 2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Lena ·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 10 лет)
@jasiahsmom, just keep in mind I’m sure he’s hurting being away. It was the hardest thing for my husband to be away from his son so he responded to things in not so great ways at times. Good luck!!!
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Мама сына-младенца
@_one_ofa_kind_, okay yeah that makes a lot of since I’m gonna apologize...
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Мама сына (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)
@jasiahsmom, so just let him know no most babies don’t sit up till there 5-6months maybe if you tell him around how many months they usually start he will stop asking all the time.. but yeah I get where your coming from he is probably just excited and probably is asking because he doesn’t wanna miss it
Lena ·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 10 лет)
@jasiahsmom, just tell him that it bothers you and that you will let him know every step of the way. Maybe respond with no but he’s doing this...... and tell him something else. First time dads are weird and not being around much, I’m sure he’s just fishing for details but he don’t know what to ask so he just asks the same stupid questions. They are dumb to us, but not to dads that haven’t ever been there. Just food for thought.
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Мама сына-младенца
@_one_ofa_kind_, yeah he is but he asks me like every other day🙄
Lena ·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 10 лет)
@jasiahsmom, maybe he’s just excited for it.
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Мама сына-младенца
@ace160, yeah you have a point, but this isn’t his first time asking you know so it’s kind of frustrating to keep answering the same question.. but when he asked it’s not like i blew up on him it was more so like “really??” Then he was like why you say that like I’m asking a stupid question and i said you are and he got mad...
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Мама сына (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)
If it’s his first kid and hasn’t been around he probably really doesn’t know... I would apologize at least he is asking and is interested in his child