I am going to be honest. I have been in a abusive relationship for over a year. When I was pregnant with my daughter I was physically and emotionally abused. My husband would lash out when he didn't get his way. I came home to multiple holes in my wall because I sided with my family over him in an argument. I was stupid to stay with him because I kept thinking he would change but he never did . Now he has multiple charges against him for the things he did and he is not complying with the courts. He is now facing jail time. He has now done something recently that is beyond words and I am choosing to finally leave my abuser.