@aztec.bunny, welcome! lol I just wasn’t sure what the normal way to handle it was , or if people have showers for every baby? Lol

Yes but my 2 are 10 years apart and my second son was a surprise shower. This time I'm not having one either. I think. I'm hoping for no more surprises. I genuinely don't want one

I’d have a shower since it’s a different gender... you don’t want to use all girl stuff with your son lol

My first two are almost 10 years apart, so we had another shower for my second seeing I had nothing saved from my first. If this one is a boy we still have stuff saved from my last. If it's a girl, my co workers are throwing me a diaper party at work. I don't talk to most of my family and could care less about my in laws, so I refuse to waste money throwing a shower to entertain people who could care less about us too. My true few always come to the hospital with gifts or when they visit after baby is born.

I had a baby shower, my second was a different gender also.