Ladies, I’m in need of some sound advice. After being in a relationship with my current boyfriend for 3 months, we found out we were pregnant. He wanted me to get an abortion but I refused. For months I tolerated his lack of respect, jabs from him and his immature friends, and lack of love from him. It got to a point where I was ready to walk because I had no reason to stay. Luckily, his level-headed friend came into town and spoke sense into him and called him out. Since then he’s been supportive and king to me, and is now excited about being a father and starting a family. We live separately. We’ve been discussing our living situation and he wants me to move into his 1bedroom with him. I want us to get a 2bedroom 2bath together and start fresh. If we moved 5-15min from where he lives, we’d be able to get more for our money. (Keep in mind, he’s not financially stable). He’s against my idea because he doesn’t want to leave his building, give up a view, a walk to the bars or all of his friends that also live in that building. I don’t know what to do... if I move in with him I’m gonna have to pay half of the rent to a 1 bedroom that I know we’re going to grow out of within 6months after the baby has arrived, and probably have his friends randomly in and out of the apartment to see our newborn baby. Also, I can’t rationalize doing that when I can take my half of the rent and get a 1bedroom for myself and the baby 5-15min away from his preferred building. Ultimately, I want us to live together and I want him to be apart of the experience with me, but I’m just not seeing eye-to-eye with him on this matter. I don’t agree with his logic or this decision. What do you ladies think I should do, or how should I go about this?