I can speak from having a miscarriage/ectopic pregnancy early on I have had 7 pregnancy’s in total including my current. But from experience the lost of my baby’s early on did not hurt as much as loosing my baby boy at 6 months. To go through the process of giving birth and holding that child then to the sad reality of having to make arrangements is a much more traumatic feeling. So I could only imagine the pain of spending time with your child then having to say good bye.

had it worse or who is stronger for going through it.

@danielsmomma, thanks, I agree we should just be there to support each other and compare who

@ashleybrunais98, I'm finish it up right and Emily is not done grieving her lost just moving right into next baby my opinion doesn't seem like smartest idea and very unhealthy. I feel bad she needs seek help. @scarapella1, reading your experience brings tears to my eyes no mother should go through and women should just support each other instead of saying who's had it worst @goodjourney, @miasmommy0218, @breloya,

I feel as if my opinion may be a bit invalid since I've never miscarried or lost a child after birth, so I can't speak from experience... I do feel as if both would be devastating, but I'd probably grieve more over a baby I gave birth to and held in my arms, over a 4 week old baby/fetus. A miscarriage is still losing a child and I'd never try to invalidate another woman's loss or feelings, whether she lost her baby at 3 weeks, 15 weeks, 30 weeks, etc. But I feel as if it would effect me more to lose the baby after birth.

You right we are just stating our own opinions.

Both are important but I️ find them different depending on what stage in pregnancy you’re in NO ONE bash me because we’re all here posting OPINIONS

I’ve had a miscarriage and it was traumatic for me. I can’t speak for losing a baby after birth but I can’t imagine that one matters more than the other. Either way you’re losing a baby that you love. Both traumatic in my opinion.

I feel like they are the same. A miscarriage is still loosing a baby

Having gone through both they are both traumatic! You still lose your baby, just in different ways. It’s equally devastating. I had different experiences. My second was a stillborn at 36 weeks and my fourth was a missed miscarriage at 20 weeks. My stillborn baby we had a funeral and buried him.My miscarriage we had him cremated and didn’t get to hold him/ see him like we did with Luke. Equally painful though.

I saw that it broke my heart because losing a child could take a piece from you and I guess Emily doesn't understand that about the other girl I recorded it lastnight but I'm not done watching it, there always up to something