We have talked about him getting a vasectomy and he isn't having that

I was done after 2 but because when I had my son I was 22 they wouldn’t let me tie my tubes either. I’m scared of birth control because I have tried 3 and they all made me gain a lot of weight and one would give me migranes, So we do condoms and I wanted other options too

Vasectomy!!! He'll only be down for a couple days. My ex had one on a Friday and was back to work on Monday at the sawmill with laborious work. We have since been divorced and he had it reversed so him and his new wife just had a baby two months ago.

Plus tube reversal is difficult and sometimes impossible. I'd go with an IUD or ask your s/o to get a vasectomy. At least then it's not permanent.

Honestly I'd get the 5 year IUD, you never know if you'll get that baby fever again and you should at least keep the option for now.

From past experiences... get the five year iud.. cause life is crazy and you never know what the future holds!

and it's lots and lots of money to reverse your tubes

We’re done after this too. My husband agreed to a vasectomy after this baby and they are reversible so if we decide later on we want another we can, but we’ve also decided to adopt. It’s honestly your call momma!