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Candace Louise
Candace Louise
Мама сына (1 год)

Finally posted on Facebook and already world war 3 with my family. 🙄 all because I didn’t tell them personally, when…

Finally posted on Facebook and already world war 3 with my family. 🙄 all because I️ didn’t tell them personally, when mind you... I️ haven’t spoken to several of them in years AND was never congratulated or asked how my son was, OR told when my cousin was engaged.. I️ found out via FB. Can we say contradicting much!? #rantover #sorry #familysuckssometimes

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miaheka

Malaina Heka

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@candacelouise13, I feel it. All we can do is ignore them and do what's best for us and our babies! 😊

candacelouise13

Candace Louise

Мама сына (1 год)

@malainaheka23, ughh the WORST! Pregnancy is stressful enough, and it’s pretty bad when it’s your own family making it so much worse

miaheka

Malaina Heka

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@candacelouise13, Girl, I know. My family is fake and they like to switch the blame on me when they know I'm right. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

candacelouise13

Candace Louise

Мама сына (1 год)

@malainaheka23 that’s basically how it’s been. They haven’t once asked how anything is, but now just because i put up my second pregnancy you want to be nosey? NO THANK YOU.

candacelouise13

Candace Louise

Мама сына (1 год)

@itsnmysoul, like for real!!!!! RIDICULOUS.

miaheka

Malaina Heka

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Don't even let them get to you!!! I did the same thing and I cut my family off. Haven't heard from them in 7 years and they all of a sudden want to be in mine and my unborn baby's life?! I don't think so. Do what's best for you mama! 💗

itsnmysoul

Elyse Barkley

Мама сына (6 лет)

Just laugh girl. People are petty beyond words

( THIS IS LONG && REMEMBER EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT AND MY EXPERIENCE MAY NOT BE YOURS !!! )

( THIS IS LONG && REMEMBER EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT AND MY EXPERIENCE MAY NOT BE YOURS !!! ) Okay I said I’d post my delivery story today so here goes . Monday 11/6 at 7:20 am I arrived at the hospital for my scheduled c-section . I was 39 weeks and 3 days. I headed up to labor and delivery and we got started on everything. Everything was going smooth until it was time to start an IV . Now this whole pregnancy I’ve been the perfect stick with actually taking my iron and staying super hydrated. I’m severely anemic pregnant or not . They went to start the IV and they can’t find anything , like legit nothing . I explain to them where a good vein is cause I’ve been dealing with this for as long as I can remember and I directed them on how deep it was and how to maneuver to get to the actual vein 😂. So they finally get it after 5 min of trying and then guess what IT BLOWS 🤨🤨🤨. Seriously 😒 okay so here we go again. We find another one after a few tight bands and fist pumps later . It’s so tiny nothing happens . 6 more sticks later in various places around my hand and arms and we’re a whole HOUR INTO IT ! We still get Nothing . I’m frustrated and crying cause we have to have this for the procedure . I was having active labor contractions so that’s didn’t make things anymore comfortable. They call nurses from all over the hospital to try . It was times I had two nurses sticking at once . They finally get the anesthesiologist to come in she can find it either . They go get a sono machine and find the vein that way and use that to Gide themselves into the freaking liquid gold . Omg finally !!! After all that I calmed down and 20 min later was wheeled off to have baby . I get prepped for the spinal and they start and guess what?? Had to stuck twice cause it wasn’t in the right spot . & of course I felt it all. It finally worked the second time around and we were finally ready to start to meet our son. Took What felt like forever but close to 15-20 min later he was out and screaming ! 😍😍. They took him away to do all their checking and test ect . Daddy was with him and they finished up on me took about 30min after that because of all the scar tissue she had to remove . My placenta was fused to my bladder and that’s why everything took so long to getting him out and me closed up . That moment was the most anxiety I ever felt in my life . They were pushing so much meds it had me out of it . We had to go so far up to remove scar tissue and had to stop cause she didn’t want to do it “blind” and not see what she was doing . All was well and finally was closed up. From all the meds I was sick for a total of 10 hours of constant throwing up and in and out of sleep . I held my baby for a total of 15 seconds on the first day because I was so sick . But, my family and daddy held down the fort while the nurses stayed by my side constantly. I felt better the next day and was able to do a little more but they kept pushing nausea meds and Benadryl because of all the itching . But, I was still able to be up a little more .