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Kellye Davis
ktmdavis91
Kellye Davis
Anyone got any advice? So Monday thru Friday my girls dad works out of town so I'm home by myself with my girls and I'm breast feeding so that means allot of sleepless nights. On the weekend when he is home he could give her a bottle of pumped milk so I might be able to sleep. My problem is I've been debating on weather or not to switch my baby to formula. I no that breast milk is better for her but it is a struggle for me and my boobs hurt allot. Here lately she is fussy allot she's gassy and has been spitting up. And when she is nursing she gets fussy and keeps pulling away from the boob she only stays latched for a few mind the pulls off and gets mad again sometimes she just needs burped but most of the time she is just fussing and wants the boob back but spits it back out.
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ktmdavis91
ktmdavis91
OK. I appreciate everyone's advice and comments.
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nomli
nomli
That's what we did. You could start with a smaller amount and work your way up if she does well.
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ktmdavis91
ktmdavis91
So I could just give her a bottle with formula in it and see how she reacts?
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nomli
nomli
My sister has gone through about four different formulas until they found the one her son did well on, but he had reflux too.
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nomli
nomli
I think it depends. Some kids have no problem switching between bottle and breast, but some kids will only do one. There are bottles you can get that are supposed to simulate the breast, which is worth a try. And you can try any brand of formula first. We went with Enfamil because it's what his doctor gave us samples of, but switched to the gentle one because he was really gassy on their regular infant one.

I assume you have her 1m appointment soon? You can always ask the doctor their recommendation on formula, and the best way to do it. We just gave him a bottle of formula. The change was instant. After two weeks ofcrying he went to happy right away. We did breastmilk and formula for 6 weeks or so. As for me, the more I pumped (since he wouldn't latch) the more depressed I felt. It got to the point where I was in the closet, sitting on the floor just crying, filled with so much despair. The day I packed away the pump for good, all the bad feelings went away.
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ktmdavis91
ktmdavis91
If I was to switch to formula. How would I do that? Just give her a bottle with formula or could that upset her tummy. And if so does it matter what formula?
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sassybitch
sassybitch
And as long as you're being a mom and providing for your child, there is no shame in using formula. Don't ever let someone tell you you're wrong for that.
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sassybitch
sassybitch
@nomli @myssfly Same here! I tried for a month with and just did not ever manage to produce enough to satisfy her. I even tried a nursing consultant, and it didn't help. Switching to formula was the best decision for us. With my son, I had no choice but to switch once I went back to work because it just wasn't feasible.
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ktmdavis91
ktmdavis91
Its not that I have a problem with formula feeding. My first child had to be formula fed and she did great. I'm just .. I guess I'm bad about second guessing myself and if I do switch to formula how do I do that just give her a bottle with formula in it and what kind? Or can you do both breast feed some and formula some?
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myssfly
myssfly
I have the same story as @nomli . I tried for a month and the baby and I were both miserable. My nipples were ripped to hell and everytime she latched on she fell asleep so i had to mess with her and it pissed her off. Once I switched to formula I was happy, she was happy, and her dad was happy. He loves that he's able to feed her and bond with her like I do. Don't feel bad about your decision, no matter what it is. As long as the baby is happy and healthy and full, who cares how they get their milk? I am not any less of a woman or a mother because I use formula. ❤💛💙💚💜
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nomli
nomli
It's up to you, what's best for you and your family, but fully switching to formula was the best thing I could've done. Breastfeeding/pumping was terrible for me, and supplementing didn't help. After weeks of struggling, I finally admitted it wasn't working, and felt better almost instantly.
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kambam
kambam
Cosleeping made it easy for me to sleep and breastfeed. Adding formula can upset her tummy more and hinder your breastfeeding if you want to continue. Try babywearing in a sling during or after a feeding and you might find that it helps a lot! Other than that, this is what mommyhood is unfortunately 😂 I haven't slept in almost 2 years now and single momma
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